I have turn downed tons of guys, from the hot jock to the dorky nerd. And for the guys I do say yes to, i end up dumping them after a month or so. It's not that I find something wrong with each of them, its just that I don't feel comfortable being with them. Is this like a commitment problem or something? Im a senior in high school and I was wondering if there will ever be that right guy out there for me that I can feel comfortable around.
2007-02-01 08:47:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes there is so keep dumping the ones that dont meet your standards and hold out for the right guy. Good Luck !!
2007-02-01 08:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age, it's too early to call it a commitment problem. It's not as if there's a marry-by date on your forehead. Go ahead and be choosy, just date enough guys that you learn what it is you like or dislike about each one. That's a good thing.
Now, if what you mean is that you are generally uncomfortable with guys once a romantic relationship starts... that might be a sign of a deeper issue. Find out if your school has a counselor you can talk to about that.
2007-02-01 16:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by John D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is no such thing as Mr. Right but I do believe in falling in love with someone you can spend the rest of your life with. You're still young and you're still changing as a person. You have plenty of time.
2007-02-01 16:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by lizko2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a relationship junkie waiting to happen. I know because I am one. I'm 26 and I've never had a relationship that lasted more than 18 months.
The good thing is that you're still quite young yet and you've got loads of time to find that guy who just makes your heart melt that you feel you can spend the rest of your life with.
It'll happen....be patient.
And ya know if it doesn't...? Then you've got yourself a lovely fun/free life to look forward to. Ah, soooo much variety!
2007-02-01 16:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is such thing as mr. right...ur lookin' for mr. right....and it's ok if u break up w/ someone for not being comfortable w/ them...i say just wait and then ur mr. right will come around...don't be discouraged either
2007-02-01 16:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by savy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound awfully young to have turn down already so many guys! oh dear!
well, i didn't think there was ,so just had a lot of fun for 8 years, until you find that someone who accepts you , with all your flaws and makes you feel /and wanna become a better person. when the future picture itself in front of you when you used to think; what the lell am i gonna do with my life?
2007-02-01 16:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by florence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still very young.
Think about this stuff when you're in your 30s.....
God has a plan for you and will bring you the right one in His time.
Right now, you are just experiencing and learning.
You will use that to build the future and see what kind of man you really want to be with.
2007-02-01 16:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He's out there.
In fact, here's a quick story for you...
My best friend and my wife's best friend were bro and sis.
We knew eachother in passing at their house.
I graduated 2 years ahead of her (1988)
In 1996 we met again and everything clicked perfectly.
So...It may seem like you aren't finding anybody now but just wait...you may have already met him and he just requires a bit more "training" to be perfect for you.
2007-02-01 16:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a mans point of view there is no such thing call mr right....there is no guy in the world that it mr right....all guys they may seem to be this so call mr right but ones you get to kno them its more like mr wrong......so i hate to rain on your parade but there i sno perfect guy out there......u date them "as is" no refunds...
2007-02-01 16:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by kerron 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you'll find him but remember that sometimes mr right can be someone you least expect so be carefull about who you turn down. good luck and GOD Bless
2007-02-01 16:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋