Well this guy and I have been flirting and tempting each other for the longest... only problem is we can never be together (its a long a tortured story)... so today we were sitting together and he was rubbing my back.... and I didnt have a problem with it... but Im not sure if should let him continue to do so... Im afraid that he'll get the wrong idea, and think that he can make me his *********.... what should I do?.... i like him.... but nothing can ever come of it?
2007-02-01 08:46:11 · 10 answers · asked by Chris T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im a girl btw... my icon says Chris T... but its really Christina.... just though i'd clear that up :)
2007-02-01 08:47:01 · update #1
Not enough details. You guys need time apart if you can't ever be together.
2007-02-01 08:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how letting him rub your back would ever lead to you being his "*****". Stay in control of the situation. I'm not sure why you can't be together.
If you even think that he would want to make you his *****, then he clearly isn't the guy you thought he was in the first place. If that is the case, then you shouldn't be hanging around this guy.
2007-02-01 08:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know there is no hope, GET OUT NOW. You may think that you can get through it without getting your feelings involved, but trust me, YOU WILL and you will SUFFER for it, more than you know or can ever imagine. You will rue the day you ever met him, be trapped in a situation you will have no control over and cant get out of without getting your heart broken into a million tiny pieces. DO NOT DO IT. Just don't.
2007-02-01 09:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by wynnbabie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're planning to be a friend with benefits, stop it. Assume any physical contact with a guy will make him want to go further. Sorry, it's biological.
2007-02-01 08:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whay waster your time with this stuff. Spend time with people that are available and that do not play games etc.
Focus on school and work and less on Boys
2007-02-01 08:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing can ever come of it you are just making it harder for both of you. It would be better to just cut it out rather than teasing.
2007-02-01 08:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sry but i dont understand the problem? you like this guy but you're not ready to go steady with him? if ur not ready,tell him that.
2007-02-01 08:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Savannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you tell him the truth
2007-02-01 08:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by futurelawyer115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2007-02-01 08:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him
2007-02-01 08:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by NETTA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋