its like he went to DC to handle some business but I know he is staying with an ex.... he has to get some very important things from her and he already told me whats going on... but...its been 4 weeks since he's been down there. I was askin him what was going on and then he basically told me I was trippin... now we havent talked in 5 days... should I let it go, or should I just keep tryin to persue him????
2007-02-01 08:40:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't pursue him. Since he is a "high profile guy" there are probably tons of women who would pursue him, if for nothing else, the money and prestige. Be a bigger person. I'm sure what he wants is for you to chase him. Make him come to you. He would find you if he really wanted to be with you.
But don't sit around waiting for this guy either, get out and do things...get on with your life.
2007-02-01 08:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Morty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really really hope this is a huge put-on However IF not, Go get a pregnancy test at Planned Parenthood. Discuss your options. If you are pregnant the fact that you used drugs while conceiving will be a HUGE factor in what your choices will be. STOP having unprotected sex and for your own life, stop using drugs. Ain't cool at all. And your boyfriend is a dork if he uses drugs while playing sports. He will end up being kicked out of sports someday because of this. Both of you have been acting very foolishly. Your Daddy has a right to be concerned. There will be consequences, A private girls school a long way from home might give you a chance to re-do your life. You need a break.
2016-03-29 00:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....seriously...I'm in DC (thus the name of my avatar).
I know some people, that know people....
He's a professional athlete. We know he's not a Bear or a Pat, so he wouldn't be here. And why would he stay with an ex? He's like....a millionaire, right? Is he going to the Wizards/Lakers game here on Saturday?
He should be pursuing you anyway. Really. Don't make a fool of yourself by being available to his beck and call. Stand your ground. Try not to care. He's going to do whatever he'd like.
I don't put my email address in here for anyone. But I could so find out some stuff if I had details. This I assure you.
Good Luck in the interim.
2007-02-01 08:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good majority of pro athletes cheat (from what I've heard and seen). It sounds like there is a lack of trust and communication in the relationship since you haven't talked in 5 days. I'd say let him go. He probably has so many girls pusuing him everyday. If he really likes you, he'll be the one trying to put the most effort out.
2007-02-01 08:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by peejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an NFL who has been away from you for 5 weeks, and then when you ask him about it he says your trippin? He's cheating on you, and he does not know what escuse to give you to prove that he's not. Let him go. If you can get an NFL player, you cab get someone that treats you better.
2007-02-01 08:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmh, damn girl. I'd give it all I've got on this one...especially for one of those hottie NFL Football players. Ooh, just to be able to feel all that weight would be sooooo nice.
What you should do though, especially b/c he said you were trippin is to let things simmer down for a bit. Don't contact him...wait for him to contact you. If it goes too long, then I'd say give him a call or something, but for now, let him alone...give him some space.
2007-02-01 08:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well since Strayhans EX just got $15 Million I am going to say you make things work till you get that rock. Then, you will leave him and take all that cash too. After all, you are a woman, that is all you care about.
2007-02-01 08:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Famous sports figures are rarely monogomous. They have huge egos and their lives revolve around their sport and their own needs and wants. If you want a guy who will cheat on you, wait for this guy. If you want a guy who will love you and stay with you and think about making you happy, find another guy.
2007-02-01 08:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your question needs some editing, then you'll have an answer. It should read, "I'm dating a player. He is staying with an ex.... he has to get some from her. "
2007-02-01 08:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, we didn't really need to know the brag statement of "He's a NFL Football player.." Ya we don't care what he is just tell us your problem.
And to answer your question, if you can't truste 'em DUMP 'em
2007-02-01 08:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋