I have been talking to this guy for a couple of months and we really like each other but he recently told me he "has a girl" only "he doesn't love her like he loves me," yet he's still with her. (Bastard...lol. sorry) B/c of this, I started talking to a guy who really seems to like me & I like him, but I still cannot keep the other person off my mind. I don't like being a girl on the side; I want to be a guy's main & ONLY girl. I think I should let the first guy go but I CANNOT stop thinking about him. Does anyone have any good advice? What should I say to him (the first guy)? Thanks! :)
2007-02-01 08:27:19 · 9 answers · asked by ~BuBbLy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm confused...torn. :)
2007-02-01 08:35:55 · update #1
tell him you need some time apart from each other, you are doin the right thing by not goin after him. keep in contact with the other guy thats not attached. just think if you go after the other guy you'll probably ended up in his girlfriends shoes, he's a loser i dont care if he seems nice if he doesnt love his girlfriend then why is he with her??
2007-02-01 14:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be the only girl, guy #1 is not for you. And, you will always want what you don't or can't have. So you will always want guy #1. So, I say dump them both and start fresh with a whole new person! In fact, just hang with your friends for a while and let your mind and heart take a break from relationships.
2007-02-09 08:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still with that girl then just forget about him if he really loved you he would have already broke up with her for you.....(not to sound like a *****) but its true... if he doesn't want to go out with you then its his loss.....I'm sorry Ive had a situation like that before it sucks.....but ya if you ever want to talk some time my number is 512-259-0357.
2007-02-09 08:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything. if he met you after he was with her then maybe you should wait an see what he does. You have only been talking to him not dateing him so he has done nothing wrong. dateing several people is not a bad thing. sleeping with serval people is.
2007-02-09 06:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i know how you feel.Best thing you could do is tell him to make a choice.Either you or her.Life is short and you deserve better.I know itshurts i have been there before.Best of luck
2007-02-09 08:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by lonelyguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a loser........ and a cheater who will do you the same way he is doing her .........The nature of a dooogggggggg!
If that is what you want honey you wont find it there.
And what goes around comes around........
It will come home to you never cheat or hurt anyone it just is nt right. honey read boundaries in dating by John macloud .
will help you a lot ...........
What we dont have may tantalize it. and then we have them it is like what did i see in that person.......
tGod blesssssssss
2007-02-09 08:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should strait up ask him *who do u love?!* if he says u, than tell him 2 proove it by dumping the other chicks ***!, and mabey check wit his friendz c if they describe him as a player...
2007-02-08 16:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by amy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear he is a real Bastard take him out of your mind
2007-02-09 08:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by m_hQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry ***, never make some1 a priority when they make u an option!
2007-02-09 08:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋