my friends bf flirts wit other girls. i feel so bad he was the only guy she ever really liked and hes doing that.Can i do anything to help?????
2007-02-01 08:08:47 · 17 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know you love your friend but as other people say... your concern for your friends relationship may not be entirely your business (although since it has to do with your friend.. it partially is your business) I say just give your friend a not so alarming heads up like... nothing that will cause HUGE drama.. u don't want to break them up because of your suspicions.. in my opinion flirting can be REALLY innocent.. so make sure you're not going to make a big deal out of nothing.. I mean if the guy has girls sitting in his lap and is constantly touching, kissing.. blah blah then yes that is something to bring to your friend's attention ASAP.. however... not all relationships work and like doesnt keep relationships together.. heck sometimes love isnt enough.. but be sure to be a good friend and have only innocent intentions =)
2007-02-01 08:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by insearchofsolace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time run it's course. If you say anything, you risk losing your BF. You can always leave hints here and there, but I would wait a few weeks and see if she realizes it on her own.
Good Luck. BF are hard to come by
2007-02-01 16:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by natdufour4030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but this is really none of your business. i know that she's your friend, but this isn't really up to you. it's all right to pity her, but don't get in the middle of it. if your friend doesn't already know that he's flirting with other girls, then leave it that way. don't let her know! she doesn't need to. tell her bf to stop once, but don't spread rumors or anything else like that. leave them be.
2007-02-01 16:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥2cute4u♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can do something about this.... tell your girl that she deserves better and provide her with the support and encouragement to move on.... and the next time you see him flirting with other women while he is still with your girl, politely go up to him and put that punk in his place.... use tact of course :)
2007-02-01 16:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kendra W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be just me, but i think flirting harmless, as long as you or whoever isnt acting on the flirting, and taking it beyond that.
its sort of like the rule "look but dont touch." same ideas apply
2007-02-01 16:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right thing to do is to tell your friend b/c if u don't in the long run shes going to get hurt alot more
2007-02-01 16:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
inform your girlfriend of what you have observed. You can't do anything to make it better or stop. You can't even force her to see what you've seen. Once she has been told, it is up to her to do with the information what she wants.
2007-02-01 16:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... no if u but in she will blame you... all u cna do is sit down and tell her ur feelings and back off and be a good frined to pick up the pieces
2007-02-01 16:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it all dependes on the guy.if he keeps on doing that you have to tell her about it and you have to tell her to leave him.if he did that a few times than it's opk,we all ocasiionely flirt.
2007-02-01 16:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i know sometimes that you wanna really help and don't want to see ya girl get hurt, but u may have to let her learn herself. let her know what you think, talk, tell her what you see him do, let her catch him and handle that...but i know how that feels so i hope that she doesn't get hurt...good luck :)
2007-02-01 16:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by music ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋