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Question

HEY EVERI BODI U C I HAVE THIS PROBLEM...HOW DO U MOVE ON FROM THE PAST AND LIVE FOR THE FUTURE...?
THIS BOI I REALLY LIKE WAS TLKING TO ONE OF MI SO CALLED FRIENDS AND IM TRYING TO LET BOTH OF THEM GO BUT IT SO HARD TO LET HIM GO ESPECIALLY
HOW DO I FORGIVE FORGET AND LET THIS WHOLE SITUATION GO

Answer 1

Understand that people constantly change and therefore you have no way of organizing a correct reaction. That is why it is so hard for us humans to let go of things. We are constantly yearning for some stability in our lives. But what we need to realize that there will be many who debunk our trust. So the best thing for you to do it get off of you computer and go find some kind of hobby. Immediately, don't wait tell tomorrow! Do something you have always yearned for but never gave chance to in you life. Even if you don't have the money now. Go promote yourself in doing something which will provide the means of getting your happiness back.

Answer 2

First, dear, you don't need to SHOUT (spelling everything in CAPS, because that makes what you wrote hard to read. So do all of your misspellings ... but once I've managed to get through all that, it seems that you have a very common problem tha is asked by many people (both girls and boys, men and women) ... How do I forgive, forget, and let this whole situation go?

What you are now going through is called GRIEVING, even though no one has actually died. There is a rather long 'process' to grieving, and you must give yourself time to 'go through the whole process' before you can see that you will have, along the way, forgiven, and forgotten, and let go. I am not going to 'outline' the stages of the process here, so if you want to find out about them I would suggest you look for books by Anna Kubler Ross, who wrote the first books on 'Grief' and they are STILL the best ones. But, for you, now ...
Don't just sit at your computer asking questions, and 'crying' alone. Get up, go out, and find something EXTREMELY DIFFERENT to do ... nothing 'risky' but something that you perhaps think is 'too hard' for you ... do volunteer work in a nursing home if you like children, or volunteer in a park if you like older people. If you are normally athletic, go hang out at the library and 'look deeply and hard at EVERY SECTION. If you are normally a 'book worm' then go rent a bike once a week, and ride it for at least three hours! And don't just try doing ONE new thing, but try several of them ... and be sure to think 'This is fun, this is really fun' when you're not sure it is at all, because you can 'talk yourself into' having real fun just as easily as you can talk yourself 'out' of it by saying 'I won't have any fun at all.'
Give yourself at least six months to 'grieve hard' and another six months to 'grieve occasionally' and if you do what I've suggested here, you'll be able to look back at this in a year and laugh and say 'I can't believe I was that sad ...' GOOD LUCK! And have a good life ...

Answer 3

I know one thing, I was in that situation before and I gotta say it's not going to be easy...............What I did was either watch movies, went out and did shopping, hung out with my parents and a couple of other friends I had. It does take a lot of time Finally, one day...........I was able to move on and let the whole situation go.
I hope this will help u.

Answer 4

The most important thing is for you to concentrate on something else. Like turning off your caps lock key and learning how to spell. Make that your goal, and you'll forget all about that boi.

Answer 5

I know how you feel my best friend is dating my X who i was with for 7 months and she hated him...it is really hard to let it go but obviously if he's with your friend then neither one of them care about your feelings so F***'em both

Answer 6

boys come and go all the time. plus if he doesnt want you you can find someone better

Answer 7

move on and let it go......

Answer 8

try going to church..