how do I choose between them? One is a cop and he doesnt make a lot of money and the other owns his own business. what do I do and how do I decide?
2007-02-01 07:33:21 · 17 answers · asked by angelofhell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is always hard to have to people close to your heart. Do you really have to make a decision now or do you have time to give it more time? If I were you, I would continue to spend time with both people and learn more about them and yourself and your relationship with them. Time will help you figure out which one is better for you and which relationship is meant for the both of you. Go with your heart and your needs and take your time to figure it out.
2007-02-01 07:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by Trying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are in a bit of a pickle. Dating two guys. Being in love with two guys. But I would say go this the gorgeous one that is sweet and that always compliments you. Because the sexy guys look will fade, and if he's too manly he wont always care about your feelings. On the other hand I'm a big believer in not cheating especially if it's on your own feelings. If you love them both you wont want to hurt either of them. But just think. Which one would you want to see smile more?
2016-05-24 02:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth it is NOT about the money. Deep in your heart you like one of them more than the other. So i suggest either on paper or in your head to jot down the pros and cons about each of them. Whichever one with the most pros has your heart. But if you feel that you made the wrong decision then maybe neither of them are right for you.
good luck!
2007-02-01 07:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for who treats you better and how well you get along. By treating you better I dont mean who spends more money on you or takes you to nicer places. My family was against me marrying the man I married because he has no money and his family comes from no money. But I married him for who he is not what he is. In the end money will not buy you happiness. My mother married for money and she is the most unhappy person in her marraige.
2007-02-01 07:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by xxmilitarychikxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, which one "woos" you the most. Do you know if any of them like you? If so choose that one. All you have to do is wait. Maybe, there will be another guy that comes along. ]
Hope this helps.
2007-02-01 07:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by allgirlsgonewild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These men are not objects. choose them by how they treat you. How they make you feel. Look in to their minds,not their wallets. Make a list of what you like in a man and see who meet it the most. Who is more compatible with. good luck with your decision.
2007-02-01 07:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by sweetmocha07031984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sista this is about the toughest sitiuation and hey there is almost no way out of it. it seems but when I had this problem it was tough maybe you will find out that both of them are better friends than bf's and maybe that is just the way it is meant to be listen to your heart and if your heart ain't tellin you nottin then listen to your instincts and if that doesn't help i guess your $#it out of luck.
2007-02-01 07:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let one be your lover and the other your partner.
Or, choose the guy with his own bizznizz.
Or, whichever one has the best chemistry.
2007-02-01 07:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does money have to do with choosing? Maybe you shouldn't chose. Just have one for fun and one to support you.
2007-02-01 07:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in LOVE with two guys or in LIKE with two guys? Who cares with one makes more money. Who makes you happier? Who makes you laugh? Who would you want to make you soup if you were sick?
2007-02-01 07:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋