I cheated long ago....how long does it take to earn back trust? What does it take???Blood!?!
2007-02-01 07:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Tattoos
How long depends on the man. If he's making himself miserable, you two should look at your relationship and figure out something.
Blood won't fix the problem, but being open and honest and giving him respect and reassurance that you won't do that again will help.
2007-02-01 08:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's paranoid, he has a reason to be concerned due to learning from his past experience.
But since he did decide to maintain the relationship he has to be willing to let it go. If he's not then he's just confused.
I recommend trying marriage counseling or talking to him about what you can do to earn his trust back. If nothing works, there is nohting much you can do since you can't take back the act, you'll have to decide if it's so bad you can't take it or if you are willing to deal with his lack of trust.
2007-02-01 11:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by naldawg240 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 35yrs of marriage, wife cheated on me with at least 7 men...that was 10yrs ago...the ungodly,devastatingly,heart-breaking pain has finally subsided, (even after I forgave her), but the memory is still with me and when I here her mention something that is close to what happened, I fall back again into the non-trust, the wondering.....trust takes a hell of a long time to be built up.....
2007-02-01 07:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a jealous spouse but I have been cheated on and its hard for me to trust him. Even though he admitted to the circumstance it is still hard for me to trust him again it will take a while. It doesn't take blood but it does take time!
2007-02-01 07:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tettypu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 06:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is you may never totally get his trust back. And you need to accept that. However, he also needs to realize that he took you back so he needs to either forgive you or leave. he cant hold that over your head forever. Its not healthy for him or you.
2007-02-01 07:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it takes a lot of time to trust anyone that betrayed you...if at all.
maybe in time he'll trust again. it takes two to make a relationship work.
2007-02-01 07:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in my experience, if i was him, id want tonnes of assurance all the time, if you wanna be with him and love him you owe it to him to try
2007-02-01 09:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Refti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not blood ... it seems to me he has no capacity to forgive and forget ...
2007-02-01 07:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋