what can i do with agirl of my dreams who have refused to love me ?

Question

This girl told me that she will do every thing for me including sleeping in my house when am not around,keeping documents for the land title,keeping my records for the bank ,caring for the sons of my sister incase they are at my home,helping in buying home use,collecting money my different houses which i rent out and allowing me to call her ' mum joweria'and use it plusher real name on the documents of the land title.After accepting all of that she says that she is not going to be with me,what can i do yet i love her and she is the only one on my heart?please help

Answer 1

As hard as it may seem, she is being open, and honest by telling you she's not in love with you. You need to go on. Good luck to you. ~~~

Answer 2

Well honey you may not want to hear this but love is always reciprocated. If she doesn't feel the same way, you can't buy affection. She's a good woman she doesn't want your money. She can see that you are just using her. You don't love her, that's lust and you're wasting your time. There's a Twilight Zone and a Tales From The Crypt about your little problem, you need to watch it. You're the "chaser" right now, and the moment you get her you're going to be tired of her. Even if she did take this, she would be letting you buy her and she isn't for sale. That isn't love. You need to move on. She may be your dream girl physically, but I'm sure that your dream girl loves you, which she does not. Why would you want someone who would just go away when you're money goes away? It's only temporary. Honey you'll find the right woman, the woman who is going to love you no matter if you have all the money in the world and still love you when you have no money. She's going to be everything you want and need. She doesn't deserve you, then again what kind of man are you that would be willing to pay for love?

Answer 3

Gee Distant Pal; This woman seems to want to do everything in this relationshp except be with you! Does she have any feelings for you at all, to where she might be jealous if you had someone else around? If you could find someone to come into the picture and do a few small things for you ( things she might have been asked to do in the past), she might stop and think..." Geez, this man could replace me if he wanted to!!", and may even begin paying a little more attention to you! I'm a NJ divoricee, and would have loved being in her shoes. Some women just dont realize a good thing until its gone. I learned that the hard way... Good luck on your relationship with her. OH, LORD...I JUST RE-READ YOUR LETTER, AND NOTICE YOU SAID SHE HAS "HER NAME" ON YOUR LAND DOCUMENTS. I DONT CARE WHAT YOU DO...BUT GET HER NAME OFF ANYTHING THAT SHE CAN CLAIM RIGHTS TOO! Your being made a fool of, by a con artist who is gaining your trust, and WILL RIP YOU OFF! Please dear stranger ( friend ) DONT let her get away with this! See an attorney ASAP, and arrange to have anything you own put in your name "only!" For Heavens sake... even couples who are in love with EACH OTHER, and get married, now a days have PRENUPTIALS!!! You may THINK you love her...but thats only because she is your right hand (wo)man!!! I wish we were closer together, I would help you for nothing!

Answer 4

Don't include her in your personal affairs. It almost sounds like she's a dream, but is she really doing these things from the heart? My Red Flag is up as far as her. All of this financial handling she'll be doing will end up with horrifying results. You may wind up losing everything you worked for. Granted, you may have known her for a while, but why chance trusting your funds to someone who doesn't love you, and very well be in it for the money? It may also mean she has another guy under her wing. Before you give her what looks to me like "Power of Attorney" over all of your items, I would perform a background check on her just to be safe.

Answer 5

That girl is being your friend (and a very good one at that), but if she doesn't feel the same way about you, you need to keep some distance and not spend so much time with her, which will only make your feelings deepen. She need to respect your feelings and give you time. Otherwise, the wisest thing to do would be part ways. And remember: you can't make someone love you, just hope.

Answer 6

QUIT LETTING HER IN YOUR DREAMS , ITS A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE SO INSTEAD OF COUNTING SHEEP BEFORE SLEEP COUNT ON YOUR HATE { WEVE ALL GOT PLENTY ANN GOD IS COOL WITH THAT AS LONG AS YOUR HATING SOMETHING EVIL OR A CLOSE FACSIMILE WHICH IS AN UNEVIL PERSON ACTING OR THINKING THAT THEY CAN EVEN ACT EVIL } AND THEN START LOVING YOURSELF LIKE THAT SLUT CAN NEVER LOVE YOU AND BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOULL BE BACK TO WHICHEVER SQUARE YOU STARTED ON AND CAN DECIDE IF YOU WANT TO DO IT ALL AGAIN. ESPECIALLY IF YOU GOT NOTHING BETTER TO DO AND IN ALL ACTUALITY THE GIRL LOVES YOU SHE IS JUST REFUSING UNTIL YOUVE SHOWN HER THAT THERE IS NOTHING ON OR OF OR EVEN ABOVE THIS EARTH GOD INCLUDED THAT YOU LOVE MORE THAN HER. AND IF BY THE TIME YOU GET DONE PROVING IT SHE HAS FOUND ANOTHER YOULL BE ALL THE WISER KNOWING THAT IF YOU CAN PROVE IT TO ONE OF THESE CRAZY WOMEN {THEY ARE ALL NUTS } THEN THE NEXT ONE KNOWS THAT WHEN SHE TURNS ON THE LIGHT IT SHINES AS BRIGHT OR BRIGHTER FOR HER. THE CAPACITY TO FIND REAL TRUE LOVE INSIDE YOURSELF AND SHOWING THE WORLD IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER IS THE ONLY ACCLOMPLISHMENT WORTHY OF ACCOMPLISHING AND THEN IF YOU CAN RING THAT BELL YOU CAN EXPLORE YOUR HATRED AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE A MASTER OF YOUR OWN SELF AND CAN FEEL FREE TO GIVE HATRED OUT WITHOUT HURTING YOUR OWN FEELINGS CAUSE HAVING A LOVING HEART MEANS YOU NEVER HAVE TO SAY YOUR SORRY YET IT MAKES YOU AND EVERYBODY ELSE FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU DO . IM TELLING YA ITS A CRAZY TRIP ON A CRAZY FLIP AND NOW ITS TIME TO TAKE A DIP.

Answer 7

Ah, markadala, you gotta wakeup! You're having a nightmare. Don't you see? You've practically given this woman ownership of everything you have except yourself, which she's refusing. I won't be surprised to read another cry of help from you . . . This time about her absconding with all your material possessions!!!

Answer 8

If its not happenin' right away she proably ain't the gal of ya dreams. Don't ya get discouraged though, she's out there somewhere! P.S. If ya need to talk to someone go to my profile and email me. I'll be glad to hear from ya! But hey what do I know?

Answer 9

please don´t try and push her to love you the more you do it the more she will hate you if i was you take over your things for yourself because she is using you to get these things she will never be yours the right woman for you is out there just be patient.

you are love struck at the moment and it is easy for this woman to get everything she want´s from you please please be careful.

a worthy partner in life does every thing to please you and never expects a reward for it.

i have also had this bad experience but now i have found after a long search my dream

good luck for you

Answer 10

I don't think she's really the girl of your dreams if she refuses to love you.