used to sleep with this guy a couple of mnths ago and broke the relationship cuz i was looking for committment.. he's never really gotten the message that i'm thru with the sex, so he keeps flirting with me and sometimes tries to touch me (we work close to eachother) anyway, today somebody asked him what he had planned for valentines and he said "nothing really", then he looked at me and said, he'll get me something for valentines day right infront of my boss.. i don't intend on ever getting involved with him as am dating a nice man right now..
do you think he still likes me?
2007-02-01 07:11:05 · 23 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
COMMUNICATION.....tell him it was fun but it's over....he didn't want to walk the same road that you do..tell him you're involved and in a serious relationship..bye bye
2007-02-01 07:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a big flirt, and I think he would like anybody that he thinks he might have a chance with. Let him flirt and enjoy the ego boost. If your thinking of having a casual sex relationship with him you should make sure your feelings don't get involved and that it won't jeopardize your job if it goes wrong.
2007-02-01 15:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are his intentions? Are you trying to decide if he is looking for more casual sex from you or if he has developed feelings for you?
Does it matter if his attention is unwanted? But I suspect you like the attention. I notice you aren't asking what to do about his unwanted flirting but rather the reasoning behind it.
I would think that when one is sexually harassed at work that she would act to end the harassment...not try to figure out if he is looking for love or sex.
2007-02-01 15:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either still likes you or just wants to continue with the casual sex arrangement you had previously. You are involved with someone else, so I wouldn't bother trying to enlighten him. If he gives you something for v-day, let it stay at your workplace so you don't have to explain anything to your new guy.
2007-02-01 15:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm not sure that he still likes you, but I'm sure he would still like to be having sex with you, therefore her thinks that if he just keeps flirting and touching, you'll give in to him.
you really need to put your foot down with him and tell him to stop trying to flirt, keep his hands and his comments to himself, and you're involved with someone and that you wouldn't give him the time of day if he was the last man on earth!
if he doesn't get the hint after that, you need to get a restraining order. but I'm pretty sure if you tell him off, he'll get the hint!
Best Wishes
2007-02-01 15:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still trying to get you in the sack. Do not think about dumping the other guy to get back with him. he is probably having fun with this because its a challange now. If you get back with him it will most likely be the same way it was before. Some guys can be so sleezy
2007-02-01 15:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he still likes you
but you need to stand your ground with him.... let him know that you are seeing someone and that you no longer want to be involved with him.... you really have to be steadfast and firm with men...when they feel like they have you and they can have you anytime you want, they get spoiled and they do not know what the word "NO" means.....
sometimes casual sex is a good thing but you have to know your limits and if the men are not ready to settle down when you are then you have to move on.... this is about you and what you want so go out and get what you want..a good decent man..... congratulations!!! keep me posted.....
2007-02-01 15:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he still likes you. I think he will get the message when you spend Valentine's Day with someone else.
2007-02-01 15:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by OMGWTFBBQ!!1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you? maybe not, like you...but he definetly wants to continue the casual sex relationship with you. its hard for someone, especially a guy, to just give up on a casual sex relationship cause most guys just want sex and not the whole relationship thing anyway....so i'm sure he wishes you would change your mind. i was the other woman at one point in time for an extended period of time and as much fun as it was for awhile...it finally just wore out. i wanted to be with someone who loved me and to have meaningful sex. don't listen to this sleazy guy, stay with the guy who you like and who likes you!
2007-02-01 15:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still likes the idea of casual sex. Whether he cares for you the way you want him to or wanted him to is hard to say.
I wouldn't entertain him unless you want to try to get back with him.
P.S.
You should never crap where you eat.
2007-02-01 15:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by HatingF8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! no! no! he doesnt..his "nothing really" tells u how lttle he takes u into consideration.if u were liked, that was an exceptionally great opportunity to make u feel special and show it.go with the nice man..they're a rarity these days.
2007-02-01 15:24:24 · answer #11 · answered by udux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋