i was myself with this girl i told her the truth about who i was and what i was all about i did not fake it with lies and bull i was myself and she didint like it should i haved lied she is a wonderfull person its to bad it didint work out
2007-02-01 07:03:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mate - in the end the truth will have to come out if you want a future with that person - it's so much easier to start with the truth in the first place. If someone falls in love with the lie, when the truth comes out (and it always does) it will change their perception of you and you may well lose them.
If they cant handle the truth from the start keep looking - you'll find the right one.
On the other hand if you are just looking for a quick roll in the hay, then all is fair etc ...
2007-02-01 07:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by zappafan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to lie and pretend to be someone else because this girl didn't like the real you. Its her loss. A real woman doesn't like a man that lies. She likes a man that is true to himself and it seems like that is what you're trying to do. Don't be ashamed to be yourself. Some women just can't appreciate a good, honest and truthful man.
2007-02-01 07:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trouble with lying over a period of time is you have to keep your lies consistent which is hard or impossible to do. Not to mention all the stuff about someone has to love you for who YOU are. You don't have to tell them your whole life story (in fact you shouldn't) but suppose you lie and they fall in love with you what do you have? You have someone who is in love with a lie.
Remember: If somebody doesn't like you for YOU it is not your fault.
2007-02-01 07:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, Its good that you didn't lie. Your relationship would of gotten complicated. It's hard to keep up lies. The truth always comes out. There are alot of people out there. Don't become a liar, you wouldn't want a girlfriend like that either.
2007-02-01 07:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by SerbMex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, because eventually the real you may come out during a random situation. Then, the young lady will be perplexd and confused as to who you are. You have to keep being honest and continue to be complete. Eventually, it may me tomorrow or in the near future but you will meet some who will like you for being who you are in your infintely interesting life.
2007-02-01 07:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Briand K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. Even if she liked the "fake" you, the real you would come out eventually and then she'll just be pissed that you've lied to her.
You'll find the right person eventually, and she will like you for who you are.
2007-02-01 07:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not ok beause its cheating ....if u pretend to be some one else and she like u as u are some one else so she didnt love u in real she love the personailty which is not urs ... for example if this girl is pretending to be this girl that appears to u wouldnt u be angry when u find out ........u can try to make her likes u make her sees the light side of u ,maybe she will love u .....goodluck...
2007-02-01 07:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes no sense. Why lie to someone to get them to like you? Sooner or later they'll find out who you really are and the whole thing will blow up in your face. If she didn't like you for who you really are then it's her loss.
2007-02-01 07:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Smeather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have lied cuz if u were wit her 4 the rest of ur life u would have to lie that long and that makes it hard on urself.
2007-02-01 07:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by trish_womans_champion619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not ok because if she fell in love with that pretend person it would mean she did not love you. You want a woman who loves you for who you are.
You'd always question her love if she fell in love with the pretend you.
2007-02-01 07:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Scary Monster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋