I have been seeing a girl for 4 months and we are kinda wild. But this time she wants to attend a hot tub party. We are juniors in college. I am a bit afraid because its going to be clothing optional. I know 5 of the guys there as they are on the rugby team. The girls may or may not get nude. My issue is I know about 5 gals that will be there also and these other guys are much bigger than me in the package department (locker room). I am only 3.5 hard and my question is will the girls giggle, make jokes, laugh, call me names, and will my girlfriend look at me as a " boy " after seeing other bigger men around me?
2007-02-01 07:00:43 · 13 answers · asked by jayceeeinmd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, don't get naked if you are uncomfortable. Go buy some sexy speedos and just go from there. If your g/f see's other men's packages she may be curious but as long as you are giving her what she needs there's nothing to worry about. Everyone is different, the other girls may say something if they are that open, but just wear something that compliments your package. dont' let everyone else see it for god's sake.
2007-02-01 07:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by justright73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go!! Tell your girlfriend that you're not into group sexual activity and leave it at that. Also check out the information on medical sites about the spread of STD by being in someone else's hot tub. You can contract the HPV virus (which includes herpes and genital warts as well as the high risk kind that causes cervical cancer). Wild or not, some things are best kept private.
2007-02-01 07:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you guys can be wild, but the problem with wild girls is that the moment something better comes along she's with him. She shouldn't be willing to see any other man but you, but if you're okay with her looking at other men naked then you two won't be lasting very long. So I say you go, keep your clothes on, watch other girls with bigger boobs and she'll watch men. You both get something out of it. Have fun!
2007-02-01 07:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is that it's not the size of it,it's how you use it.Now if your girlfriend loves you,and i mean really loves you,then it shouldn't offend her in the least.Now for those who are attending the hot tub party,that might be a different story,but I wouldn't let it bother me,i would look at them,and say i don't judge you ,so why judge me,by my size.
2007-02-01 07:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by ruthann_71168 @yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The prob with wild girls is that when something bigger and better comes along they normally choose the bigger is better package. I'm sure u will be fine. If she really likes u she won't choose anyone else.
2007-02-01 07:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest (and trying not to hurt your feelings) but you are definitely small in the package department. I guess it's the motion of the ocean rather then the size but if you feel so uncomfortable then don't remove your clothing.
2007-02-01 07:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i say go to the party who cares about size i would take the time to show the other men how to really please a woman keep your shorts on and focus on her..If it is done right she will not be looking at anyone else for a long time!! LOL Then when you get home it is her turn!!
2007-02-01 07:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if clothing is optional just keep your boxers on (or swim trunks). If she loves you for you then she isn't going to dump you for having a smaller package. Your package doesn't make who you are. If she does then she is shallow and will get what she deserves.
2007-02-01 07:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly cares for you then it will not matter to her how big or small a guy is...Only the ones who are not mature enough will be the ones to make a big deal over a guys package...You should have a talk with her and ask her if it matters to her or not..Good luck...
2007-02-01 07:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fyour girlfriend does do this then she is just not the right one! No real girlfriend would care about that type of stuff!
2007-02-01 07:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by phantomdream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋