is it normal to have wedding blues 6months before the actual wedding?!!?!! help me i have doubts.
2007-02-01 06:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
A wedding involves two people, and a marriage involves a lifetime. Consider divorce as "not-an-option", are you willing to be with your significant other for the Rest of your Life? Do you like them and do you love them; both are important for a long term relationship.
Also, talk to the other one, if you are both serious, you should both be open to talking about things. See if the other feels the same way as you. You have two options, "I do" or "I don't". Don't worry, you're not the only one with these feelings. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-01 07:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is EXTREMELY common. Don't worry, it's just an opportunity to learn a little more about yourself and relationship. Don't panic. This can be a trying time because the image says you should be happy-happy-happy all the time. In reality, moving forward with someone else involves the loss of your old single life, among other things. For some people it may symbolize more.
Here's some food for thought.
cold feet before the wedding:
http://www.emotionallyengaged.com/newsletter_cold_feet.htm
more on cold feet:
http://weddings.about.com/od/weddingstressmanagement/a/coldfeet.htm
2007-02-01 07:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by mrrmaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more information ; what kind of doubts exactly; everyone is a little nervous about the prospect of one and only now ; you should evaluate why and where these are coming from ; a coworker called off her wedding one month prior; was hard but she knew that it wasn't right; don't get caught up in the hype if this one is not the right one in your heart???
2007-02-01 07:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by sml 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts try to determine the source of the doubts. If they are legitimate don't go through with it. Better now than a marriage that ends in divorce later.
2007-02-01 06:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big change- maybe you are just questioning if you are ready for such a big step. Marriage is a big commitment. A little bit of cold feet is to be expected. However if you start feeling depressed, anxious or overwhelmed you might want to bring it up with your fiance.
2007-02-01 06:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Suki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is the calendar days are winded down and your gettin closer to your day....get busy try to stay busy so you wont think about it...congrads and god bless
2007-02-01 07:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear aarti ,
i have a link below that will help you along the way ..
http://www.weddingguide.co.uk/articles/features/postweddingblues.asp.
all the best !!!!
2007-02-03 08:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by THUG LIFE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't get married...
2007-02-01 06:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋