A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-01 06:53:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By him saying you are weird was his impression of you as appearing wishy washy. You told him about what you wanted to do with him, then backed out because he has a girlfriend, this gave him mixed signals. His only interest in you was to get you to have sex with him, he has no desire to be your friend. I am glad it turned you did not go ahead with his invitatin for sex. My guess is , you would have ended up feeling hurt and used by this jerk. Forget him, he is not worth the trouble nor your time. I do hope that I have helped you!
2007-02-01 07:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a girlfriend dear... I know it hurts and you want him.. but lets be honest.. YOU DESERVE BETTER! if he thinks you're wierd and he ignores you then F^CK HIM! Why are you wasting your time after someone who is not available to you. I know what its like to have a crush I'm having a crisis myself.. but really i don't think that you should waste ur time or energy. Times are hard life is hard... but what can u do but just move on with ur fine self! there will be plenty of nice guys, just keep urself busy find new hobbies till u can accept one of those nice guys into your heart (hopefully an unattached nice guy ) ^_^ good luck!
2007-02-01 15:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by insearchofsolace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get onto other things like sports, school friends. life is 8 million x better without a boyfriend.
2007-02-01 15:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by fairygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he isn't interested in you any more. I would find someone else.
2007-02-01 15:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by double j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋