what is the right thing to do?

Question

i broke up witha girl 2 weeks ago ,but now im strating to miss her
and i feel that there is a big hole in my life without her , so what should i do .
1 should i get over her??
2 should i do some thing to win her back??
PLZ tell me the right thing to do.

Answer 1

You should DEFINETLY sth to win her back.
14 feb. is comming....

Answer 2

Become her best friend! That was the strategy a former boyfriend I had used and it's working pretty well. While we're only friends at this point, we now spend quality time together. We call each other to ask for opinions, assistance, etc. There's also less pressure to fit into some preconceived notion of what the perfect couple is suppose to be. So, try to start communicating with her fairly regular and when she mentions a problem offer to help her with it. Good Luck

Answer 3

First you have to know what it is you want. If you do not want a relationship right now and she was being clingy or she did something unforgiveable for example, then I would think you did the right thing by breaking up. It'll take some time to adjust. But if you did really like her and broke up for some silly reason then I would say give her a call and get to be friends again and then give dating another shot!

Answer 4

You obviously broke up with her for a reason. Don't go and try to win her back. You're probably just lonely. You would be not be doing either of you any favors by starting up a relationship you ended just 2 weeks ago.

Find a hobby but leave that poor girl be.

Answer 5

it is all about what u feel. but u don t know what u feel, so then that s a problem. That big hole maybe isn t her as a person but as somebody who u loved and get used to and miss it. so try to do something, go out with your friends, just don t be alone and don t do nothing because then u think a lot and that makes u sad. So my opinion is that u should get over, but make as u feel.

Answer 6

It depends on how long you dated her, why you broke up, and if you really miss HER or if you are just lonely. In the past I've made bad decisions to get back with an ex out of boredom and lonliness...it just results in an even uglier breakup down the road.

Answer 7

why did you break up with her in the first place? if you regret it then you need to man up and let her know. she might be just as miserable as you are... people make mistakes, people confuse their moods/emotions, but if your heart is telling you that you miss her and you can't live with out her.. then you should do something about it... u can go with the good ol` flowers and whatever.. but i think having a heart to heart in a nice quiet place... if she doesn't want to listen or meet with u.. u hurt her a lot or she really is over it and probably wasnt that interested in the first place. but if u feel that way u should try to talk to her and tell her how u feel. =)

Answer 8

Make sure you are missing her, not just the company.
Figure out if you care for her and want her in your life.
Remember why you broke up with her, if the reason is still there, then get over her. If you decided you acted foolishly then beg for forgiveness, but remember, don't play with people's emotions, that's just not cool.

Answer 9

My best advise is :
Don't eat out of the same bowl twice.
If there was sufficient reason to break up with her, let it be. Move on and don't look back.
If you broke up with her for all the wrong reasons, learn from your mistake before you do it again.

Answer 10

tell her exactly what you just said to us: you miss here and theres a hole in your life without her, see what she says. but you better make a move quick because if shes as special as you say that she is, then she wont be single long. best wishes.

Answer 11

There had to be a reason why you broke up with her, find someone else and just get over her...