i moved to a new place and after a month my roommate and i "hooked up" but did not have sex. well to be honest we were about to when he stopped himself, saying he was sorry. I was dating someone else so I too was sorry. After the whole ordeal we decided not to speak about it again. I then left the guy I was dating. but feelings for my roommate turned best friend kept growing stronger. I tried to deny them I tried to play it cool. We became great friends and always joked, flirted, and fought about everything. It's been nine months and although it doesnt happen on a regular basis we still hook up and have sex once a month. I don't want to be used or be a friend with benefits. I know ive become that. He doesnt want to be in a relationship, but wants to have sex with me? he moved recently and for the first few weeks called me over everyday to help him with random things but never made a move on me. we spend a lot of time and he told me he cares about me. but why doesnt he want to be my bf?
2007-02-01 06:49:46 · 1 answers · asked by insearchofsolace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you straight up ask him! Ask him questions!!
For all you know he may have been burnt before, and is affraid of the "relationship" title. Sit down and have a low key chat!.
Or... sorry, but he maybe just using you for sex????
I am sorry to say, but It's really hard to get out of that "sex friend" habit once your're in it!!!!!
Just relax, communicate with him! Tell him how you feel!
2007-02-01 17:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Missy Missy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋