she's been honest enough to tell me to my face that she like an affair knowing that her friend is in a relationship. in her words "i am thinking of my heart here too". pls help,,dont want any troubles.
2007-02-01 06:49:34 · 26 answers · asked by udux 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you just have to be blunt. She is not a friend to your girlfriend if she is wanting an affair with you. Yes you have to look at your heart but only if their heart is available to reciprocate it back, if their heart belongs to someone else, forget it. If she was honest enough to tell you how she felt then be honest enough with her to tell her how you feel. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-02-01 06:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a stand up guy, so do what stand up guys do.
Tell your girlfriend.
This WILL NOT get you into any trouble. If you are honest and up front with her about her friend's attempt to seduce you into being an infidel, she'll love, respect and trust you that much more. The only people that should be offended are you and your girlfriend. Her friend is no friend at all if she's trying to hook up with you knowing full well that you are in a relationship.
2007-02-01 06:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Tell her that you love your girlfriend and aren't interested in having any kind of affair with any other girl. If she doesn't back off, tell her that you will mention her "proposal" to your girlfriend and show her exactly what kind of no good back stabbing friend she has.
2007-02-01 06:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 07:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think you should tape her without her knowledge and then tell ur girlfriend so that she knows that this girl is a back stabber the recording is just a back up in case ur gf don't believe that her friend is capable of something like that. and the both of you should confront her together.
2007-02-01 06:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by wet t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a tramp!! So disrespectful of you and your girlfriend!
This so-called friend has no concern for your relationship and who needs 'friends' like that?
You should have no concern about offending her.....she has ALREADY offended you.
Tell your girlfriend what a great friend this tramp is and both of you should tell her to evaporate.
2007-02-01 07:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats to think about then if you don't want any trouble just don't do it.She must not be much of a friend to your girlfriend.Or maybe they are testing you to see if you will be loyal to your girlfriend who knows women lol
Good Luck
2007-02-01 06:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to choose. Either you get sexually involved with her and risk losing your girl at a later stage, which is a rather nasty thing to do or you be a man and tell either one of them the truth.
2007-02-01 06:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by aparna_2oo4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would steer clear of her! Just say no thank you, that wouldn't be right. And try not to hang around her as much as possible. Is there any way you can break it to your girlfriend that her friend is coming on to you?
2007-02-01 06:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would care about offending her. She is not taking her friend's feelings into consideration by asking you to participate. Tell her that you are not interested. PERIOD!
2007-02-01 06:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by laesjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋