we have so much in common, he has a fiancee and i have a guy who will propose very soon. What should we do about it? I would love to just scape with him and forget about every and everything and we are both very attracted to each other in every way possible.
2007-02-01 06:48:14 · 8 answers · asked by cutelovableme4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is really bad. im thinking that you are having issues in your relationship that need addressed immediately. You both, but Im more worried about you. How could you let yourself fall for a man when you AND HE are already taken. You are asking for trouble.
Im thinking its just an infatuation, how could you leave someone youve spend countless months yrs hours minutes on loving and getting to know for someone who stirs you like that in such a short time? Dont you see the potential for heart break. You guys are already at the mountains peak, there only one thing to do but come down.
You and your bf are already established. But like i said you need to address the issues that made you turn to this guy in the first place. Im worried about you because on television and ESPECIALLY real life, these things never work out. A man who is engaged, or married or already taken in whatever way, RARELY leaves for the other woman.
Dont you know it takes most men longer to build the love feelings and those feeling of seriousness with a woman. In my opinion it also takes them much longer to get over it once that type of relationship ends. Therefore I think he is fooling you and himself, if given the descision right now, unless shes an old prude. Hed choose her over you in a flash.
You should end this. In fact i think you need time alone from both of them to figure out what you want and need in your life. writing to you was almost like answering myself. Long story short I was the rebound girl, he tricked me and himself. Saying things like he was to be over her, im so much better for him, he can see us loving eachother etc... said he ended with her, now its just me and him. After all of that do you know where we are? Friend status. Hes not over her. Even tho they are not together how could i think hed pick me over her, the memory of her at that. He needs to get over it first He was with her 1yr6mos. Met me 5 months ago. You do the math. I still have hope, lol. It fades everyday though.
These things hardly work. Protect your heart.
2007-02-01 07:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking someone is not a reason to leave a long term relationship. Throughout our lives we will run across people that we are attracted to. Usually these incidences are short lived and mean nothing. I would wait a while and see if you two grow more together. If you do and find that you two are really falling in love than I would stop and think about everything in your life and would it be worth it to leave your current relationship for this new one. Don't stay with someone if you don't have feelings for them. You will be miserable. You need to do what will make you happy. Just give it time first and think about everything before you make a decision!
2007-02-01 06:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming he would want to end things with his fiancee, do what makes you happy. If you are to go through with this, however, bridges are going to be burned. If you break up with your boyfriend and he doesn't want to leave his fiancee, you'll be on your own. Just make sure a life with your current boyfriend is not what you want.
2007-02-01 06:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nick T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got something that works you maybe should stick with what you got..
If got with this new guy and figured out that the way you guys deal with problems isn't compatable then your screwed..
2007-02-01 06:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there and I suggest that you first of all end your relationship with your boyfriend and then email me!
2007-02-01 06:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2007-02-01 06:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end your respective relationships and do what you want.
2007-02-01 06:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do him
2007-02-01 06:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋