There is this girl I like shes16,im 23.Ive liked her since she was 14,I was 21.I put this in Gods hands and asked Him that if she was 4 me,to limit my feelings toward her so I can concentrate more on Him,if not to get her off of my head.So time passes and I get involved more w/God and I still like her. I meet her cousin and she says she likes me after 2 or 3 days that we met.So I let her know clearly that Im not interested because Ive had feelings 4 her cousin 4 quite sumtime now.Throughout the time of me liking this girl,she would tell me that if a 16 yr old and a 23 yr old met halfway it would be cool(hint).she would rub her hands on mine and one time I was play fighting with her and the moment felt rite 4 me to kiss her but i didnt,so like ten min.later she tells me wutever martin!!(.theres alot more things but cant fit em in.)So i just found out she doesnt like me.Where does God come in the picture or was it just me taking things out of proportion? IM me at mcontrerasjr23@yahoo.com
2007-02-01 06:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Martin,
Please...I think something is wrong here. You should know that you are too old for her. You're a man. She's a child.
God would never encourage this. I am sure of it. I am not here to be your moral judge and jury, but stop the play-fighting...or whatever it is you two do.
You need to pray on some understanding of this, be specific in your prayer, and open your mind to receive the answer.
I wish you Godspeed on your way to enlightenment.
2007-02-01 06:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 23 you should be more mature then a 16 year old. Let her grow up and stop hanging around her is you can't keep your thoughts clean. When she's of age then see if the feelings are still there....personally I think you should wait until she's at least 20 before pursuing the relationship. She needs to grow up and be on her own before getting into a relationship with someone so much older.
2007-02-01 06:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Moosha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's 16
This isn't anywhere you will find comfort. You have NOTHING in common at this stage of the game. She is a CHILD and you are more than old enough to be considered a pedophile.
2007-02-01 06:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by y_b_normal2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
share the Gospel, teach that we are all vile sinners deserving not something yet Hell (be cool approximately it), yet God so enjoyed the international that he despatched his in basic terms son that any one who believes on him would possibly not perish yet have eternal existence. Take it slow and in small bites, you do not desire him to choke on the Gospel and spit it out, so be mushy while going approximately it. Plant the seed and enable Christ do something.
2016-10-16 10:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u lost me at the very end.. ha?
ask her how she feels about u.. u will never know for sure unless you ask.
2007-02-01 06:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Shana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her how you feel and maybe it will work.
good luck jennifer
2007-02-01 06:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by jgflovesya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋