I live in the north east and want to move, maybe not forever, but somewhere to another part of the country (USA). My problem is that my bf doesn't want to move anywhere when we get out of school, he is very family oriented and I like that but i want to spread my wings and fly some where, try atleast. I am currently going to school for medical transcription and trying for coding also, I started with general studies and wanted to go somewhere from there, but didn't know where. I wanted to try a career in aesthetics but i'm afraid to fail again. i have already switched my major a ton of times, and dropped out of college once. I know that my bf can't stop me, but I love him, and even if I did leave him, i go for that type of person and feel like I am stuck. Does anyone with any real life experiance have any suggestions?
2007-02-01 06:41:59 · 8 answers · asked by butterflygurl085 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By all means spread those wings and fly. If you stay put with him sooner or later you will resent him for it and there you will be, years of your life wasted and your momentum gone.
I know. I left a very comfortable lifestyle to pursue a career and be something other than a rancher's wife. If I hadnt made the move I'd be miserable today, I know it.
2007-02-01 07:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya think you could benefit from some A.D.H.D. medication ?? With the history you outline, you clearly don't know what you want. Step back, take a breath, think things through. Make sure you look into why you are so unsettled. It could easily be explained by a Dr.
2007-02-01 14:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by y_b_normal2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk him into going with you. Start pulling potential jobs for him in the area you want to go to. Talk up how cool it would be to live there.
If he still insists he wants to stay put start looking for yourself. Make sure he knows you're serious. If he never comes around...do your thing anyway.
You only live once...don't waste your time with someone that doesn't want the same things and is unwilling to compromise.
2007-02-01 14:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by HatingF8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you do some traveling. You need to take a road trip or go to Europe. You're making a mistake if you hang out with this homebody too long.
2007-02-01 14:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do exactly what you want to do in life... you cant stay for the happiness of one person..you could end up having resentments toward your friend later on down the road..stop being co-dependant and branch out... see the world..because it is huge with tons of great oppertunities..you cant stay in one place for 1 persons happiness..you have your own..Good Luck
2007-02-01 14:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you change your mind a lot..
your one of those people that have to go through things to learn...listening just doesn't have the same impact.
good luck though..your not the only one like this...
just be considerate..
2007-02-01 14:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spread your wings and fly little butterfly. You will always regret it if you don't. If your boyfreind loves you he will let you go and do what you need to.
2007-02-01 14:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be who you are and stop caring about what other people think of you. And if your bf really loved you he wouldn't hold you back. Good luck!!
2007-02-01 14:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋