dating this guy for almost two mnths>> he"s great> reliable< kind thoughtful good conversationalist< dependable etc< but today he said something i didn"t like>>he called me and told me about this part time delivery job he"s interested in and would like me to work with him and he"d split half of his pay with me> oly thing is that he said he"d let me know at the middle of the month if he got it>then i said that i"m sure you"ll be seeing me before then> the he said< if you wanna see me and also depends on how busy i"ll be>we"ve been spending most weekends together>we see echother at least three times a week>> he also told me to give him a call this evening> i get paranoid because i"ve been in relationships were i was lied to< and neglected and now i"ve met somebody that calls to see how am doing and takes me out to nice places and doesn"t pressure me into having sex>i"m scared that he may be playing games>am i paranoid or is tere somrthing going on< help?
2007-02-01 06:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you're reading more into this than you should be so far! relax, and enjoy your relationship. you can't let past relationships ruin what's goin on, but i do understand that nobody wants to be "played" either.
be confident in yourself, you can only control you. you will be ok!!!
2007-02-01 06:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that you are over reacting. If your guy has called you up AND told you that he'd like you to work with him ( which means you'd be spending more time together), it only goes to show that he's not two timing. Probably he's just busy with mundane stuff. However, if you have a hunch that something is wrong, you should sort it out with him. Otherwise, you'd make a mountain out of a molehill of everything he does or says. Since you've been in relationships that ended on a sour note, it's just making matters worse. Hope everything works out fine.
2007-02-01 14:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by aparna_2oo4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess paranoid isn't the right word here, I would say either cautious or careful, and there is nothing wrong with that. But, as far as I know, you haven't had any reason to doubt this guy or see anything that resembles any type of problem that may occur. Just keep a sharp eye and try not to worry too much, life is too short.
2007-02-01 14:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY WELL IF HE IS BUSY IT GOOD HE SPENDING AS MUCH FREE TIME WITH U AS HE CAN, AND HE IS WANTING TO SEE U ALL OF THE TIME, THATS GOOD NOT BAD! U SHOULDNT WORRY, ME AND MY BF WERE LIKE THAT AND WE BOTH WORRIED JUST THE SAME, NOW ITS BEEN 2YRS BE HAPPY
2007-02-01 14:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its paranoia so relax
2007-02-01 14:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋