Well there is 2 girls that i like and one of them is in a relationship thats kinda rocky at the min and the other has just come out of the relationship. the girl who is in a relationship seems to like me as more than just a friend but like i said she has a boyfriend. The other doesn't like me more than a friend i am almost 100% sure even though i have never asked her. What should i do should i tell the person without a bf that i like her or should i wait till the other has split with her bf???
2007-02-01 06:31:31 · 22 answers · asked by scott C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold out for the one who likes you. I was in that boat once. I held out and now wev'e been married 11 years.
2007-02-04 05:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on when the one with the bf is planning on calling it quits. If she doesn't know that means she probably isn't truely planning on breaking up.
I'd leave the one alone that doesn't seem to like you like a bf. You'll probably just end up being her rebound guy. Give her a few weeks and see what her status is. If she's still single throw the idea of you two hooking up and watch her reaction. If it isn't good you can then call little miss "I've gotta Man" and tell her you want her.
It's a little shady but it will save you from letting them both go.
2007-02-01 06:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by HatingF8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when that happens! You have two people you like, but the one you like more is harder to get. I would confront the one with the boyfriend. Ask her if she is interested in you. If she is, try to work something out. If she isn't only one option remains. It's better doing that than either waiting for nothing and possibly losing both opportunities or having to break up with the single girl because you found out the girl with the boyfriend does want to be with you.
2007-02-01 06:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Trixstix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl just getting out of a relationship doesn't want another one, then leave her alone. And if the other girl who is in the bad relationship seems to like you, then stay around her. Be her friend and show her why you are the guy for her instead of the clown she is dating. In time, she will come to her senses and choose u.
2007-02-01 06:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait altogether... Even if the girl with the bf splits with him, she's going to be on the rebound which is never good. Give it time, you might like them both now but if you wait a while your feelings might change and you don't want to have chosen the wrong one to go for... Don't rush, take it easy, see what happens and mostly, HAVE FUN! :) xx
2007-02-01 06:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you ask the girl without the BF? Won't lose anything for asking...You might just regret it l8r for not asking. You'll be wondering for all your life if you don't. I know i did. So you should go for it. You're not even sure if the other girl will break up soon with the BF. if she's flirting with you now (if she is, i dunno) while she has a BF, don't you think she'll do the same while you 're together as BF/GF? Think about it.
2007-02-01 06:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by formula350 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would express my feelings to the single girl, the worst thing can happen is her saying NO. If she do get with the girl going through a bad relationship, but don't try to sleep with her. Because that will give her a bad impression about you, just try to support and encourage her a lot. Give her the sense of security that you understand her and care deeply about her. Then she will make a decision.
2007-02-01 06:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly sweetie, I wouldn't talk to either. The one without the boyfriend is only using you for rebound. Second waiting for someone to break up with their boyfriend still won't work because she could NOT break up with him. If she does, she would still only be dating you off the rebound. Find a girl who isn't in a relationship, someone whose last relationship wasn't that serious, then that way they would genuinely like you. Good luck hon!
2007-02-01 06:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was kinda in that situation... Except the guy had the gf and I liked him and this other guy.... What happened basically is I gave up Hope and that day She Finally broke up with him... ANd me being a BIG MOUTH had told him I liked him. SO he asked me out.... I would just wait. unless ur desperate
2007-02-01 06:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Lovely♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes, I would go and try to ask the one without the boyfriend to do something, and if she doesn't then that is fine, at least you will know where you will stand. I wouldn't let the other gal who has a boyfriend know that you like her like that, until it is officially over.
2007-02-01 06:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋