ok so my girlfriend and i split up about 2 months ago now. We have stayed very close friends since then.2 weeks ago i asked her if she had feelings for my best friend..she said no she didnt and then i tried to squirm my way out of the question which eventualy resulted in me blaming her sister and lieing to her. She has since told me to back off and giver her space. About a week ago she started talking to me and i actually thought things were going to get better. The thing now is that i am giving her the time and space and letting her come to me..its jusst that i see her and my best fgriend getting close and closer and closer ( he has a girlfriend already)...i admit it...im really really jealous of what those two have, because i dont think i will ever have that with her again..and to be honest its really really making me depressed!!!... she texts him all the time, he texts back like i used to do!!!...how can i make everything up her???...what can i do????...please help!!!
2007-02-01 06:30:42 · 5 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you can't make the girl lie you so you just need to either move on or wait until u know what she wants to do!!
2007-02-01 06:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this was what happened to me except I had the girl my best friend wanted (they had some chemistry before I came in) well anyway, he got so jealous over the months he finallt got her to leave me for him, so he called me a few nights later and asked me if they could have "whoopie" I hung up, but they didn't have "whoopie" turned out he liked guys....
She'll come to you sometime, just keep trying.
2007-02-01 06:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cyrax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well it sounds like you messed up like I did with this guy. I learned it's better just to move on if you really love someone. I am exactly in this same situation, just let it go, because my best friend isn't even talking to me anymore and has ended our relationship because she likes my ex. I made a mistake and I'll always regret it....moving on is a lot easier than lingering.
2007-02-01 06:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to be honset with her and tell her what your felling and that it is making you depressed and jealouls and that you relilze her and your best friend are getting closer and you dont expect her to just come running back to you but that you just wanted to tell her that and maybe she will see how much you really care for her and make her think and come back to you...
2007-02-01 06:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is to get your friend away from her. That is definetely a violation of the friend code. Tell your friend that she is your ex and to back off. Then just lose her.
2007-02-01 06:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋