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My husband has been in the airforce for 10mons and he loves it.
I have always wanted to join the airforce but when I got pregnant with my daughter I sort of gave up my dream. My husband was a police officer at the time and he did not want me to join. So when he decided to join I was upset but I got over it. And now that he's in I'm kind of sad because this was my dream not his. He recently told me if I still wanted to join it would be okay! I just wanted to know if I did join could we be stationed at the same place and what is it like to be in togther?

2007-02-01 06:16:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government Military

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I met my husband when I was in the Navy. I got out a few years ago, but he's a lifer. It's harder than most marriages, but it can work.

You guys will most likely be able to remain in the same area with each other, but not the same command. For example, both my husband and I were attached to ships in Virginia, but not the same one. We were both different rates as well. (different jobs). But, it was the same home base, and that's all that counts. We'd go to work, and come home to each other every night we could.

We also don't have children, which made it easier when the time came for going out to sea. You'll need a dedicated child care provider that will be available at a moment's notice or long-term, just in case you both have to spend time away for any reason.

But, in all, it's been great. You'll find you guys have much more in common with each other, and to talk about. We share stories of ports we've been to and such, and knows exactly what I'm talking about. I also find I'm much more understanding of late hours, duty days, and sea-outings than most wives probably are.

I say, if this is your dream and he's willing to support that, go for it hun! It can be self-satisfying and rewarding.

2007-02-01 06:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Karma 6 · 0 0

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2016-12-03 08:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

The truth is that it can be difficult, but it is worth it. Your hb is doing a job that lesser men fear to do, and that is to protect our country and constitution. He is a hero. You are a hero to be there for him and raise your child. He has to be strong to battle those who would harm you and your son here in this country. It is your job to support him and make him know you are all right.

God bless you and your Military man.

2007-02-01 06:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by Eric K 5 · 1 0

I have only known one couple where both were military. They are stationed in NY together, but he is in Iraq now & comes home in May (hopefully). She leaves for Iraq in June. They did station them together but their deployments came up different. It seems hard to me but they both say they love military life. Do what is right for you & your family. My prayers will be with your family. Thanks for your service whether as supporter (wife) or soldier.

2007-02-01 06:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0 0

It hard especially if you are in 2 different branches, but you can make it work.

2007-02-01 07:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

do they sleep at attention and salute each other in the morning..??? whose the boss..??? what happens if the duty stations arent at the same place..??? what happens if there is a divorce..?? kids..??? dogs..???

2007-02-01 06:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by badjanssen 5 · 0 0

Go to usmilitary.about.com

They can answer your questions better.. Good luck..

2007-02-01 06:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by tiny b 3 · 0 0

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