im 15 and having sex...yes i know its young but ive been with my bf for 3 months now.im really body shy il only show him myself n a bra and panties.how can i loosen up to make the sex better.is there any posisitions i cud try that arent to freaky???lol
2007-02-01 06:14:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you won't be able to be comfortable around your boyfriend until you are comfortable with yourself
2007-02-01 06:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to sound like every one else but I you shouldnt really be having sex at 15. Mentally you are not even ready for what sex brings. I know that by no means does anything people say on here going to change your idea because lets face it everyone likes sex but I would recomend against it. Sex is teh most intament thing and by not even being comfortable enuff to show him your body, how can you have sex. You cant get naked with in front of him because you are to shy, but you can give him the one thing that you contol no matter what yourself doesnt make sence.
2007-02-01 14:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mimi-may I ask you how you plan to pay for the care of a child should one result? You are too young for sex, and you being too embarrassed to show yourself is proof of that. When you are with someone you love, and you are ready for such a private and intimate act, you will not worry about being nude with him. You will love it and enjoy it. I am an adult, and would not ever have sex with someone I only knew for 3 months! You can have a lifetime of consequences! You don't need to loosen up, you need to be in love, and more mature.
I am sorry if this sounds insulting, as I don't mean to be, but I would hate to see the dreams you have for your life all have to change because of this.
2007-02-01 14:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats rather a broad question - i would hope you are using some type of protection or your next question will be in family planning and child raising....try looking into at karma sutra.
2007-02-01 14:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by effin ken 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump the boyfriend, hit the books or you will end up 15 and pregnant on welfare.
2007-02-01 14:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Navulam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know you don't want to hear this, but if you're not comfortable enough to get naked in front of him, you probably shouldn't be having sex with him, since that requires getting naked usually...
2007-02-01 14:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try experimenting.
2007-02-01 14:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use protection.
2007-02-01 14:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT SHOULD YOU KNOW IF YOUR HAVING A FREAKIN BABY WITH THAT LOSER?? WHY ARE YOU ASKING US?
2007-02-01 14:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU WANT TO BE A YOUNG MOTHER????????????
2007-02-01 14:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by kittysweetie19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋