I am talking to this new girl and we really really like each other she is blunt and told me how much she likes me but there is a small problem she is still kindof dating someone but she is treated like crap and wont leave how can i open up her eyes and get her to realize there is much better not just me.lol
2007-02-01 05:50:01 · 9 answers · asked by bs99dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure you let her know how much you like her, listen to her, be there for her, but don't act out on anything until she broke up with the other guy.
2007-02-01 05:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. If you are a good guy, as you sound like, you have nothing to do. Things will take care of themselves.
If this other guy is treating her like crap- give it time, they will be over soon, or eventually.
Becareful though- don't get involved in their relationship, don't try to break them up, don't influence it. Be sure to know that you do not want to be stuck in the middle of their break up.
Be supportive, but leave her to make up her own mind.
Keep your smile, it won't be long and she will be yours. Good luck man.
2007-02-01 13:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gostenhauser5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? You can't do that. She has to see it for herself. She has to realize it on her own. The harder you try to push the issue, the more resistant she may become. Go with the flow. If she at least has a lick of common sense, the light bulb will come on. He'll do something that will be the proverbial straw.
Be supportive of her, but stay out of her business with that situation. Unless her life is in danger, do not interfere.
2007-02-01 13:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the best thing you can do for her and for yourself is to keep being there for her. Keep treated her like the princess she deserves to be treated. If that doesn't make her see she needs to dump the clown she is dating and choose you, then she's not very smart.lol
2007-02-01 13:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...maybe shes not right for you? If shes talking to you and dating another guy?! Doesnt make sense. But, if he treats her like crap then why is she still with him. And, if she 'really' likes you then she needs to leave him!
2007-02-01 13:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by greengirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that u really like her and give her stuff like flowers and i was in the same situation and i actually told her that i liked her and she actually did dump the jerk-off boyfriend of hers. so just show her the best of u. thats the best thing u can do. the decision is up to her
2007-02-01 13:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting with you although she has a boyfriend? No wonder he treats her like crap.
2007-02-01 13:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat her even crappier ..the girl is obviously getting off on it
2007-02-01 13:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tom F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel toward her
2007-02-01 13:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by kassemm2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋