he thinks all guys are tryin to woo me and take me away from him.But i love him n i know i wont leave himBut i hve an unusual tendency.i tend to get bored easily..and thats why he thinks i'd get bored of him..but he doesnt understand that i love him and hes my love and not a thing that id get bored off him and leave him..what should i do?
2007-02-01 05:49:57 · 10 answers · asked by Sneha S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is either insecure or possesive. If you don't give him any reason to distrust you, he needs to deal with it. If he is worried about other guys, tell him you get hit on by five guys a day and still come home to him, so he can relax. Don't stop talking to other guys unless you want your boyfreind to own you though--some women like being posessed and others don't--that's up to you.
2007-02-01 05:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you have to weigh the facts.(1) He loves you, and you love him, so why not leave the boys alone. (2) How would you feel if he sits and talks to girls on the phone, and when you ask him why, he says he gets bored easily! How would you take that? Just food for thought!!
2007-02-01 05:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there delt with that. You need to listen to the song save the last dance for me by michael buble. Basically if in the past you have never given him a reason to belive you would leave him or cheat on him then he is being paranoid. Either he has had those feelings and is worried you'll do what he has thought about doing, or he wants to control you buy limiting who you talk to.
2007-02-01 06:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll start by sayin i don't think people under the age of say 18 should EVER get too serious. u know? date. hang out. kiss a little. but keep it friendly and honest enough so no one feels obligated or held back? i'm assumin u are under 18. when dealin with mature relationships i don't believe in platonic friends. REMEMBER THIS, just because u don't have intentions doesn't mean the guy doesn't have intentions. i think it's not worth it to put yourself in that situation.
2007-02-01 06:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Is he friends with any girls besides you? If he is still feeling the same way about you not talking to other guys you might need to break it off. Girls can be friends with guys without it being romantic.
2007-02-01 05:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by clueless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, let him know that you are only interested in him, reassure him that is the only guy in your life and that these other guys are just friends, and that he shouldn't be so insecure. Hope this helps, good-luck!
2007-02-01 05:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by CaReBeAr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds possessive and insecure, but if you admittedly "get bored easily" it's no wonder.
2007-02-01 05:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by LolaCorolla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world......that is how my relationship is rite now too....my bf doesnt let me talk to any guys for that reason too and i tend to get bored fast too but not wit ma bf becuz i luv him a lot.....u just got to explain to him how much he brings new things to ur life everyday and becuz of that u will not get bored of ur relationship.
2007-02-01 05:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't let my gf talk to other men. she either has to accept the way my finances are or she will have to see a new man.
2007-02-01 05:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that possive *(^()^()^ leave him. its ur choice to be and talk with whoever u want!
2007-02-01 05:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋