Well would you guys ever date a women that has a newborn/infant?
I know this is silly I just feel like im going to be damaged goods.
2007-02-01 05:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well im married getting ready to divorce after the baby is born (cant do it b4 cuz of custody issues). So i wasnt just sleeping around. Im also not looking for another man, just for future reference. Thanks for the anwers.
2007-02-01 06:32:09 · update #1
i am not a guy but i can answer your question from personal experiance...there are guys out there that dont care if you have a child from a pervious relationship...if a guy falls for you he will fall for ALL of you....i got married and had a child at a young age...we got a divorce when my daughter was just turning 4 and i found the love of my life...he accpeted my daughter and treats her as his own and we also know have a 2 year old daughter together....it happens all the time...dont give up hope..you will find the one!good luck!
LOOK AT GUYS LIKE HOMIE101 AND THE NAME SAYS IT ALL YOU WOULDNT WANT HIM ANYWAYS!DONT LET GUYS OR SHOULD I SAY BOYS LIKE THAT GET YOU DOWN!
2007-02-01 05:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by noseyroseysillywillie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Courtney, for what it's worth. My son is dating a young woman whom he dated for 7 years. They had talked about getting married, etc. Well, about a year ago they broke up, I think because my son wouldn't committ to getting married (at least that is what I had heard). He started dating other women, she dated one guy who apparently wasn't all that interested in 'settling down'. Well, she got pregnant by the 'other' guy who then dumped her like a hot potato. Her baby is due in about six weeks and her and my son have been together now for about 3 months. She plans on giving the baby up for adoption. These are college graduates who are 25 years old. So sweetie, don't you worry about being 'damaged' goods. Good Luck to you!!!
2007-02-01 05:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things to consider when dating someone else. In my opinion, children and women with children are not considered "damaged goods". I prefer to focus on mutual attraction and how we click to determine the future of a relationship.
2007-02-01 06:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Paleface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i'm not a guy, but i think every pregnant woman has at one time wondered if she would ever land another guy if she were left alone. I think the right type of guys would date a woman w/ a baby. And you wouldn't want the guys that wouldn't!
2007-02-01 05:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by brina S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How would you be damaged goods? If the woman does not have any problems with the father, is single, and has her head on straight, why wouldn't a man date her?
2007-02-01 05:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course. A child isnt something to run away from. My best friend (a girl) has a little boy n he is the best part of my life. Mature guys will not care whether you have a little tyke.
2007-02-01 05:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by John M 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
IT WOULD DEPEND ON WHY SHE HAS AND INFANT TO BEGIN WITH. BUT IF THERE WERE REASONS OTHER THAN JUST SCREWING AROUND, OR IMMATURE DECISION, THAN I WOULD DEFINITELY DATE HER. JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A CHILD AND THINGS WENT TERRIBLY WRONG DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE DAMAGED IN ANY WAY. IT JUST MEANS YOU ARE HUMAN, AND DOES NOT CHANGE YOUR ABILITY TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN...
2007-02-01 05:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, but for the most part you have to probably date someone who is divorced, widowed and has kids from former relationship/marriage, that way, you are both on the same level.
2007-02-01 05:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would date a pregnant woman. As long she don't have drama n I feel her personality.
2007-02-01 05:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she's a good person - OF COURSE!
If she's a knucklehead or a golddigger HELL NO!
But that would apply to ANY woman, not just pregnant women and new moms.
2007-02-01 05:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋