as many of you seen i was called out for being annoying.. but maybe it is ok for people to do that
it makes us think , what ways can we improve ourself
so let me have it lol
is there anything that i could improve in my approach to people , what annoys you about me ?
even if you love me but something gets to you , thats ok
go on give it your best and i will try my best to take note of anything that is said ( unless it is to convert to another religion lol )
2007-02-01 05:29:13 · 24 answers · asked by Peace 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
P.S thank you Monica for the inspiration for this question
2007-02-01 05:30:41 · update #1
deacon nice one but ..
dont imagine i am not tough , even though i am not confrontational :o)
2007-02-01 05:34:01 · update #2
ahh thank you Monica ... now i understand and it is cool
and i do annoy people with being nice , i know that
maybe we can help each other there eh ?
2007-02-01 05:36:50 · update #3
ALL RIGHT,
You are too nice.
Seriously.
Be mean, be tough and rough for once!!!
2007-02-01 05:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Monica L. 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
very good and honest question. To be honest hun, i have read your answers before, and i cannot find anything at all annoying about you. You need to stay the person you are, and not change just because people say you should. Our self improvement will come with age. The older you get, the wiser, more knowledgable we become, and can look back at our past mistakes in order not to repeat the same again. We live and learn. If you annoy others, then that is their problem, not yours. Let them be the ones who suffer for picking up on trivial things. You stay as you are hun.
Brightest of Blessings x
2007-02-01 10:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Solista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right, I'll say something.
Your punctuation is lacking. Capitalization, periods, etc. are all very few and far between with you.
That's about the only thing I can tell you to improve upon. And really, that's just to promote better communication.
I think you're a wonderful person (from what little I really know about you), and while everyone has room for improvement, someone has to realize their shortcomings for themselves before they can change them. In order to improve, you have to find your own faults for yourself. When you find your life or your relationships lacking, or (heck) even when you've got some free time, do some soul searching - it can help give you more insight into the Real You, and through that, you can become more in touch with a more "perfected" level of self.
Love and blessings,
Scarlet
2007-02-01 05:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lady of the Pink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly Pangel, you can't annoy anyone unless their own mind lets them be "annoyed". Usually when someone is annoyed by something or someone it's because something about them, their answers, actions, etc. are jagging their sense of self-cherishment or self-concept in some way. For those who suffer this problem (we all do to one degree or another) it's far more skillfull behavior to try to figure out what it is and cut to the root of why their mind is disturbed by the person or thing and eliminate the root cause of that suffering OR subdue it at least.
There's nothing to be gained in lashing out at someone else for our own mental projections, perceptions, etc. when the solution rests within our own capacity to change our own minds.
_()_
2007-02-01 05:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by vinslave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was not there when u were called out 2 b (annoying)
But when i c u instead of getting angry and insulting everyone(as many people do) , asking the same ambiance how to improve urself, i admire ur behaviour.
Keep acting like this, and u will b gr8.
2007-02-01 05:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Resonance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I can't think of any area you need improving on. You've always been polite and respectful, and I've valued your answers even if we disagree. I have never seen you insulting or hateful. I think you're the perfect example of how one should act on this board.
2007-02-01 05:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by sister steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To arrroach to people you have to start to know ur self, yeah it might sound stupid and stuff like that. But it's true. get to knoe urself a little better...You can try to talk to people whom you never ever talk 2 get to know them, go to them and introduce urself.....Yeah i know it might be hard, or you might be shy, but it' just an idea.
I really dont know you that much to know if ur annoying....but if you are well that's you but sometimes being annoying can lose friends.
Here's a tip: try br more freindly, if people are not freindly to you then dont even try. ^_^
2007-02-01 05:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by vicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your comments many times. Sometimes I agree and sometimes I don't, but I like that you put your thoughts out there in a respectful way. I don't find you annoying at all (at least not yet LOL j/k).
2007-02-01 05:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by glitterkittyy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dear Pangel. You are a sweet gentle soul who also happens to have a thinking mind for herself.
You are a person that I admire and wish that I could be more like in many ways. You never lose your temper as I am known to do.
Much love to you. XXOO
2007-02-01 05:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
'calling out'? Are we back in high school?
Yeah, I find some of your answers annoying. This medium nonsense and new age fuzziness gets on my nerves.
But you do your thing and I do mine, that's fine and I wouldn't have mentioned it hadn't you specifically asked.
2007-02-01 06:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pangel doll just continue to be true to yourself and do your own thing who the hell cares what others think of you as there are always gonna be people who will appreciate you and then you will always have the ingrates to whom i would not bother wasting my time on if i were you
2007-02-01 05:36:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋