why does my boyfriend feel that he has to give me things back "in return" when he doesn't have to?
2007-02-01 05:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by US 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing should be returned to chicks
2007-02-01 05:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He believes it is the right thing to do.
Although you may not want anything in return now, what if someday he just stops giving them to you (on your request). Would you not give it a second thought or would you be bothered by it. Careful of what you say or think you want, it may bite you in the end.
2007-02-01 05:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel exactly the same as you, only I ask my girlfriend if there's things I can give back to her in return for all the favours she does me.
She tells me that "All's fair in love and war" and says I don't have to 'return' any favours
2007-02-01 05:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by swelwynemma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is having difficulty accepting gifts.
Its natural. Don't be too angry...he's just showing a little humility.
Or, he could just be that generous.
Tell him that when you get him something, to not feel obliged to return it...its a gift. But don't look down too much on this, its a sweet and endearing trait.
2007-02-01 05:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 18:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels guilty accepting things.
he does not deserve them...so he has to give something of equal value back
he needs a self esteem boost
2007-02-01 05:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does "in return" mean sex wise or money wise? i guess it doesn't really matter. it's obvious you are young, hon..... you'll learn with experience.
when you are dumb enough to give and give and give, you eventually start to resent the person. keep doing it and you'll see soon enough.
2007-02-01 05:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels sorry and regrets it.
2007-02-01 05:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋