ok let me re word this. the real father of my daughter is passed. he died in a car accident when i was 2months pregnant. and then my ex came back into my life and he said that he would be there for me always and forever.well now he is in jail after we broke up. my ex considers my daughter to be his. he was there through the bleeding during the pregnancy.when we were together the first time it was amazing. we got engaged and we lived in two diff.cities but we were going to move in together. but he became very jealous after a bunch of my co workerstold him they thought i was hot.so it was over. well after my baby's father passed i ran into him and i was very depressed. i lost my future husband i my doctors didn't know if the baby was going to make it due to the constant bleeding. we ended up getting back together til his ex popped up saying she was pregnant and wanted him to end it with me or she would kill it and blame him for it. well it's not his and now he is in jail.hang on.
2007-02-01 05:19:23 · 8 answers · asked by ber-ber21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he is in jail because a 14yr old thought that he was hot and sent him naked pics of herself after telling him online that she was 19. i knwo nothing happened bt them.i know the lil *****. she thinks it's funny.anyways he has been writing me letters saying he wants to come home to me and "his" daughter because he considers her to be his. i love the man i met over 5 years ago and he promises to be that man but i just don't know if i should give him a third chance. i usually don't give second chances.my family says that he's worthless and that i should marry someone rich but i want to marry for love and i want to work. i am so confused about this and it has had my head spinning so please help.
2007-02-01 05:23:48 · update #1
when we first got together there was no drama. it was heaven. now i just don't know.
2007-02-01 05:26:30 · update #2
First off he did not go to jail because a 14yr old sent him pictures of himself. There is much more to the story in which you do not know.
This child is not his. Do you honestly believe this person to be a good role model for this child??? I can't see him being a positive force in your life. Be smart and find a man who will not be jealous and that has not done any time.
2007-02-01 05:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen up young lady. You have been through a horrible horrible time and you got yourself out of it. YOU, not him.
What is most important here is YOUR DAUGHTER.
Since you do not need him financially and can work, then do that.
Be single for a while, for heaven sakes, take care of yourself and your child without anyone else in your life to give you grief. Surround yourself with friends and family so you can get yourself financially independent and after you clear your head you will know that he should not been on the net, playing with a 14 year old, and what ever is going on with him now, it's going to get worse, you do not want him as your daughter's father, get it?
2007-02-01 13:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you and your baby need in your life is a jailbird who flirts with minors on the Internet, and who also has a pregnant psycho-ex that threatened to harm your baby. Can it get any worse than that?
You and your baby need to be on your own, and build a life for yourselves. You can do it.
I am a widowed single father of two girls. And we have a beautiful life and family. It wasn't easy, and it still isn't easy, but I am glad I never remarried.
2007-02-01 13:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...this is what a call drama..I'm sorry to hear about your baby's dad..Well stay away from the other guy because he sound like no good anyway if he is in jail...And alway remember that it's all about you and your baby from now on..You DON'T need a guy in your life to be happy..Move and ..Just you and your baby..You will be much happier that way...
2007-02-01 13:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just better off alone for now. You have a little girl to take care of and I know it's hard on you but you have to move on for her. She needs you more than anything and depends on you.
2007-02-01 13:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spare the drama and stay away from all the parties concerned.
2007-02-01 13:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Paul M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Sounds like you need to move on... unless u like all the drama.
2007-02-01 13:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there more to the story?
2007-02-01 13:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋