This girl is my ex-girlfriend and I care about her very much. We will just call the boyfriend Hannibal and my ex Claire. Should Claire go to Germany with Hannibal without Claire introducing Hannibal, the boyfriend of two weeks to any of her friends or family? Keep in mind the cat drug the rat in from a bar about two weeks ago. Shoold claire (27) be dating a 50 year old man who has a 19 year old daughter and a wife he is currently devorcing? Is this true love or is an elaborate booty call, or perhaps is this a really bad decision on her part? Thanks!
2007-02-01 05:17:59 · 18 answers · asked by red_idol@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually - the question is is this any of your business....
sorry but you are the "X", she is an adult and the situation is her's to manipulate as she pleases.
That being said, if I was Claire's mother and I found out after the fact that she had done something like this, I would be extremely upset and pray everyday that she didn't just make the stupidest decision of her life.
But for you - *sigh* - you must back off - it's truly none of your business.
2007-02-01 05:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
SUCH a bad idea. Granted, I'm only 18, but let's use one of my cases as an (extreme) example.
Two weeks ago, I saw a guy that I knew I would fall in love with from the second that I saw him (and I don't even believe in this stuff). Well, I met him later that day, and we have practically become best friends over the two weeks (and it was obvious within the first day that that would happen). We both said we don't want to date anyone in the beginning, but I know I have very strong feelings for him, and I can tell he does, too. After two weeks, all the plans we have are for a night in.
So Germany is quite drastic, considering that if the two of them have spent enough time together to even be thinking about more than a small date, they must have no lives!
2007-02-01 05:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, two part answer: should she? Heck no. Is it your business? Fraid not.
Yeah, of course its a booty call. DUH! Travelling with young women is how old dudes who are getting divorced get laid, to be perfectly frank.
But she's an adult, maybe she's into it with eyes wide open. But it's not your baggage to carry. She's your ex-girlfriend. Act accordingly and move on. I know it's hard but, hey, she's not pining for YOU is she?
2007-02-01 05:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it, it is not smart at all... but it is also not your business. She is an adult and is free to make her own decisions. You cannot stop her and saying anything to her about it will only make her more willful about the situation.
My suggestion... let her make her own mistakes and go on with your life. You seem bitter, let it go.
2007-02-01 05:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way should she go with the man! she does not know the man well enough to trust him and maybe he wouldnt do anything to her but in this day and time and with all you ever hear on the news this is such a bad idea im gonna pray for your friend!
2007-02-01 05:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like huge trouble waiting to happen.
2007-02-01 05:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by P_P_K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Claire is a slut.
2007-02-01 05:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has a round trip ticket in her possession and she is an adult who are you to question who she sleeps with or do on a trip.
2007-02-01 05:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A better question is if this is any of your concern. She is your ex g/f. Time to get out of her life.
2007-02-01 05:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
DISGUSTING! Ur old enough to be her father. Totall booty call
2007-02-01 05:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by RinaRie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋