you know,sometimes i get scared that some day he might run off on me after he's had his way
2007-02-01 04:41:25 · 31 answers · asked by mailsberry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he seems to be only interested in sex and you're not happy with it there's no point in trying to change his mind... it depends on how long you have been with him and how comfortable you feel tackling the subject with him.
All the guys I've dated who only seemed interested in sex were only interested in sex, ( I started having sex with them too early into the relationship, which I'm not proud of but this has made me learn a lesson or two. If you allow some time before jumping into bed with a guy you get the chance to get to know him and realise whether he actually enjoys spending time with you, also through this process you will get the signs you need to decide whether he's worthed the effort you have to make to open your legs) I left those relationships because I believe I was worthed more than an inflatable doll and let's face it he's not really interested in your intellect, what could be more insulting and demeaning to you?
Surely enough you will eventually meet a guy you appreciates you and enjoys being with you not just for your body but for your mind too.
Now go and find yourself a decent guy who deserves you girl ; )
2007-02-01 05:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Liz S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably will run off, if that's the entire basis of your relationship. Do only as much as YOU are interested in, and don't give it to him just because he begs for it. Let him know you need some commitment, that you're not into "just sex." If he's worth having, he'll be able to deal with that.
2007-02-01 12:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy him. You shouldn't waste your days worrying about the future. If he runs off, you can find another boy toy. There are lots of nice ones out there. Trust me, don't get hung up on one. If it's meant to be it will be. All the worrying in the world won't keep him with you if he doesn't have feelings for you.
2007-02-01 12:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he were really into you and respected you, his mind would be on other things. Getting him something to cure his hormonal urges will only last so long. I wouldn't give this guy much attention. You need to be with a MAN not a hormonal "frat boy".
2007-02-01 12:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by padiwan2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might take off after he gets it, but that's just a chance you have to take. I think you should be willing to take that chance if you been with him for awhile. If he leaves then forget him, he was never nothing anyway.
2007-02-01 12:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him the sex, if he leaves you because of it, that means that is all he ever wanted from you in the first place.
2007-02-01 12:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry Him who wants a guy who isn't interested in sex?
2007-02-01 12:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump the Dude obviously he doesnt car for u at all. You wnat a guy who loves u for who u are
2007-02-01 12:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by RinaRie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instinct. He probably does only want sex...it's not uncommon, you know! So you should dump him and don't give him the satisfaction of having you. He probably kisses and tells too..
2007-02-01 12:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can't handle having relations without emotions then you need to tell him to go away. otherwise, embrace him as a "buddy" and don't think twice about it.
you said you worry, which means you care (emotionally involved)
let him go and find someone who doesn't just want to sleep with you.
2007-02-01 12:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋