me and my girlfriend of almost 2 years are on a "break" for the last 2 weeks and i am dying. we talked a bit before but i said that i would leave her alone and let he decide what she wants to do about us. how do i suddenly turn off the switch and not talk to her. we lived together for 5 months and seen each other every day? This is the girl i want to spend my life with, what can i do?
2007-02-01 04:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by stadnek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by allowing her to have a break, she will be happy to be with whoever she wants and do whatever she wants, and know that you will be sitting there waitting for her. You are basically just someone who she can fall back on if her fun doesn't work out so well. Teach her a life lesson and do yourself a favor. Make it official. Move on. If you ever take her back then she will know that she can pull this stunt again and easily manipulate you.
2007-02-01 04:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another girl. Trust me. You will not be talking to your ex if you had another girl. You are delusional if you think you are going to spend the rest of your life with your ex. She doesn't want you. It's not working out after 5 months. A life time is more than a hundred times that. You're not right for each other. Get a grip on reality and start dating other women.
2007-02-01 04:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not avoid talking to her would be the first thing, I think that you should let her know in a small way every day that you are thinking of her and giving her space to her as requested, but that you can't live without her. She probably thinks you don't care if you just stop talking to her. Send her cards and flowers, mail her a letter or drop one off at her home. Nothing large, just say that you are thinking of her, trying to understand and give her space, but that you want her to know you miss her terribly and love her.
2007-02-01 04:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and that you want her to be your wife. Ask her why you are on a break and see what is wrong. More than likely you are smothering her and she wants some time to breath. Talk it out and see. But remember if she doesnt want it anymore than there is nothing you can do.
2007-02-01 04:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u i wouldn't stop with her. Just cause you told her you would.Go for what your heart says and continue with this relationship and if it worsens or dosen't work out than move on and just least stay as friends.Didn't you say it was the girl you wanted to spend the rest of your life with?
2007-02-01 04:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves u she'l come back is the general old saying
but phrases r phrases n in todays fast changing lives...one should not leave the one..one loves deeply coz everything is independable....so dont let her go.
2007-02-01 04:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by snowhite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her. Go hang out with someone else and forget what you had.
2007-02-01 04:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her
2007-02-01 04:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋