Suddenly the conversation goes out of the window when i see i am alone walking with them. I am not gay and all . But i always want to keep them happy while conversing. i dont want to piss them off when they are with me!!!
How do i rectify this discomfort of mine??
2007-02-01 04:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by metallixan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you really experienced with girls? Maybe your scared of what might happen when being alone, you sound like you make conversation rather easy with other people there. So treat them the same as you treat everyone else and just keep talking.
2007-02-02 00:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by ForbiddenParadise_xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just shows that you're a caring person and lovely, don't feel like you have to talk all the time - if you can have a comfortable silence with someone that means you're comfortable with each other (i think!).
have a back up conversation to stop you worrying about it and if you get stuck just ask a general question (have you had a good day, have you seen...., what do you think about..... that sort of thing). if you know you've got something else to talk about if you need to it might stop you worrying then you can relax and let her see how lovely and caring you are!!!
xxx
2007-02-04 19:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her questions about her life/school/work etc.. what sort of hobbies she has.. funny stories she can tell you etc... if you're feeling uncomfortable, be the person who listens rather than talks... and when you're comfortable then you can interject with yours... you shouldn't feel pressured... and chances are she's probably feeling the same as you... good luck...
2007-02-04 18:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by muppet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋