my boyfriend wants to stay round a girls house that he used to love. they have had sex before and am worried he will do it again. i trust him but its not always about trust. but temptation.
2007-02-01 04:32:38 · 26 answers · asked by princezz_saff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they're connected, I hope they're protected.
2007-02-01 04:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deffinately say NO WAY! It isn't about trust it's about the fact that he has had sex with this girl and it hurts you and makes you uncomfortable to have them being together when he is your boyfriend now! I have been in the same situation, my boyfriend's ex who he had sex with, it's been years since they dated, this past year suddenly starts calling saying they should be friends, luckily my boyfriend didn't want anything to do with her but this was extremely upsetting to me and he agreed that it's wrong. After all, they had feelings for each other like yous hare with him now and that's not something people just forget.
2007-02-01 04:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather trust someone and be let down, than go through life not trusting ANYBODY.
BUT ....He sounds like an immature idiot, to be honest. And she is BOUND to tempt him.
You seem a nice person; you can do better than this. Give him the elbow.
2007-02-01 04:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way I would agree to this, he has to make a choice - you or her. There's a possibility it may not be you but at least you'll still have your dignity and your pride and your self respect. Good Luck xx
2007-02-01 04:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time to say goodbye. It sounds like he is going to stay round there whether you say yes or no so best to have some dignity.
2007-02-03 23:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would also be worried. Do you really think he is not getting his leg over. Having the best of both worlds. Only you can decide.
2007-02-01 05:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being completely delusional. You should dump him and find another boyfriend because he's trading you in for his ex.
2007-02-01 04:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him,he's still interested in her,dump him now before he hurts you.You deserve better.
2007-02-01 04:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy Roots 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that old chestnut, you wasnt born yesterday tell him your fist will "connect" with his face if he suggests such a thing again!
2007-02-01 04:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by pu55y perfect 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no if u dont trust him completely, id be jealous if i were you.
2007-02-01 04:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him - He's trying to have his cake and it eat - Next he will be suggesting a little 3some action....
2007-02-01 04:39:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋