She really wants to see me act. She says she really enjoys our friendship, but she says nothing about her feelings after I tell her how much I care for her. She just hopes this does not alter our friendship. What the hell does that mean? Then she says now that I hold her things, "Maybe things will be better now". And she asks if I feel better now that I told her how I fell. After I told her I would ask out anyone else I liked but her, she wondered why, and I said it was because we are so close.
2007-02-01 04:28:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find some other romantic interest - this gal is not going to be be *your* gal. I'm not sure she really even thinks much of your friendship, let alone wanting anything more. It sounds as if she is probably looking down on you, but trying to be polite.
Hope I understood your post correctly. The first and last sentence especially are a bit confusing.
2007-02-01 04:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has been trying to tell you politely that she only likes you as a friend. To be more than friends would ruin you're friendship. Leave it at that and let things be as they are for now. Maybe in time she will feel the same way that you do. But for now having a wonderful friendship is an awesome thing.....don't ruin it.
2007-02-01 04:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she's just not that into you. If a guy I was interested in romantically told me he had feelings for me, we'd be making out. Not talking about our friendship. Sorry dude, but you tried, you were man enough to tell her, and now you have to accept that she doesn't want to be more than your friend. Even if sometimes she acts in a way that makes you hope for more. People are selfish like that.
2007-02-01 04:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is confused about her feelings for you, that is why she is sending you mixed signals. She doesn't know if she likes you as just a friend or more than a friend, so that is why she stays silent when you profess your love for her.
Stop trying to force a romance when none exists - if it's meant to be, it will happen on its own. Tell this girl you want to stay friends, but you can't keep pursuing romantically if she isn't sure. You should both pursue other people instead.
2007-02-01 04:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her feelings have not grown for you. If you like her, just try to remain friends with her. If it is meant to be,it will happen. If not ,it won't. In the meantime,go out with other young ladies.This will not be the first young lady that may not have an interest in you. Someone will say yes and others will say no.
2007-02-01 04:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sort of confusing too, no offense.
She clearly isn't that type of girl. She's not comfortable with telling you how she feels. She may even be shocked that a guy wants to say how HE feels. Give her time.
If she doesn't want to date you, you just have to realize you have a great friend and it's worth waiting to find that girl out there for you.
2007-02-01 04:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that men have the advange over women?..
Alot less of you then us.. That means you can just about name your own ticket when it comes to love.. Don't settle for a girl who is trying to keep her options open, or play that stupid "lets be friends" game.. tell her it was nice knowing her, but your friends are always straight up with you and to have a nice life..
Jeez, do we have to teach you guys everything?..lol
Honestly, Good luck.. there are more fish out there who want you I am sure..
2007-02-01 04:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by tiny b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is confusing but i think that she just wants to be your friend. i think she does care about you but not in the same way that you do. She still wants to feel wanted by you though. thats why she wondered why you would ask someone else out but her. or maybe you should ask her straight out. ask her especifically what you want to know she will have to respond and if she doesnt then that means she doent want to hurt you.
2007-02-01 04:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want to hurt your feelings, so instead of being straight forward with you she is in a round about way saying get the hint. I dont care for you in that way.
2007-02-01 04:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by Snowflake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing she's shy and this is only much less annoying to talk to you in PE for the reason which you're fairly doing something. yet while this is outdoors of sophistication, this is harder to start a communique. i think of she likes you, yet once you like her, then do no longer look ahead to her to make the circulate, circulate as much as her and whip up a communique. Make it hassle-free for her, do only no longer circulate blabbing on end.
2016-09-28 06:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋