give me tips about how can i approach a sweet girl that is smaller then me and i like her so much and she lickes me a little but she is to busy studying and she gives not to much attention to a relationship.all her class mates( her girl classmates) want to stay with me and hang up with me because i am smooth and cool.but the only thing they want is to be popular in the school because i am popular and the want this.all day,they are flirting with me an the girl that i love thinks that i am flirting with them but is not true,aldo the other girls are cute i don't think that they really love me. advice!
2007-02-01 04:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by interesant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not sure I understand the three years smaller than you - do you mean younger - age is just a number unless you are over 18 and she is under then it is illegal
2007-02-01 04:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by erindrozda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, let's take this in chunks.
Right off the bat, you don't love her; you're filled with hormones, thanks to puberty, and so you your perfectly normal attraction to her feels huge and out-of-proportion, like it's love. Trust me, it's not. How do I know? You don't know how to approach her. If you don't know her well enough to approach her, you don't love her -- you're just attracted to her. Which is fine, by the way, and completely normal and understandable.
Next, about your being smooth and cool: if you were really smooth and cool, I suspect you'd be interested in girls your own age. The reason you're attracted to this younger girl is that, since she's younger, she is "safer" to date -- that is, you feel more confident that you can keep her as a girlfriend than girls your own age. Believe me, if you're so popular that girls your age want to date you only for that reason, this younger girl will probably feel the same way. I don't think that's really it, however; I think these girls all have a genuine interest in you, but you're not secure enough to trust it.
Finally, if you really want to be "smooth and cool", you'd better work on your language skills. This girl is three years YOUNGER than you, not smaller; punctuation marks are used often, but singularly. You may scoff, but literacy on paper helps literacy in speech, and since most people write the way they talk, I have every reason to believe you're not particularly smooth verbally. Get confidence in your writing and your speech, and you'll be talking OLDER girls out of their pants in no time.
2007-02-01 04:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by big_bowl_of_meat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three years is nothing when is legal but if you are 18 and she is 15 you better watch your self move on but if you guys are into each other you should go for it tell her how you feel and maybe she feels the same the worst that can happen is that she will not respond to you that is it.
2007-02-01 04:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wilfredo G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 10 and she is 7 I say get busy finishing ur study.... Seeming so young, she cannot actually licke you, unless if she is a pet.
2007-02-01 04:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about girls and try to work on you grammer. If you ever want to get anywhere in life you're going to do a lot better if you finish your education and forget the girls.
2007-02-01 04:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should flirt with her everyday.........but not too much. Also talk to her alot and ask her to go places with you on weekends and ask her how her day is going. Thats what my b/f did to me and it worked.
2007-02-01 04:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the girl and spend all your spare time studying grammar and spelling!
2007-02-01 04:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to her. Spit some game at her ask her to chill with you, just you and here not here friends. See if it works and them just tell here does she want ot go with you.
2007-02-01 04:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by ReyMysterio'swife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you DONT do issssss....Dont write her letter by handwriting if u ever do ...Make sure you type it up and get SPELL CHECK...2nd thing you DO is...go tell her you like her....
2007-02-01 04:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by CS 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she (lickes) you that is a start
2007-02-01 04:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by danniselv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋