my girlfriend broke up with me because next year shes gona be home schooled, we live in the same city, but she lives atleast on the other side. is there a way we can still see each other even if shes being home schooled? (btw her aunt is a ***** and wont let her date till 16, shes 15)
2007-02-01 04:22:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess i forgot to mention, her aunt is siroulsy mean, she wont even let her have friends who are dudes, and no i talked to all of her friends and mine, even her cousin, she is being homeschooled. but she wuz raised in a very sirious christian religion and theres no way her aunt will even let her out unless shes with her
2007-02-01 04:42:32 · update #1
just go to the movies
2007-02-01 04:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure, there are plenty of ways to get together other than at school. what about sports events and clubs? even though she will be homeschooled, will she be allowed to do extracurricular activities? i am assuming her aunt is homeschooling her this late in the game is because she is "turning into a bad girl", god forbid she expiraments and finds herself! i am a parent and i think doin that to a teenager cripples her for the future. you should not encourage her to disobey, but encourage her to find herself. like going to the mall or the movies or ice skating or for a walk. you can meet up with her from time to time. you can show her that you are there for her and you tow do not need to break up. show her that you are her rock and she will respect you for that and fall deeper in love with you. but be caferul, man. what if she's using homeschool as an excuse to break up and she's not interested in you anymore? you may have to win her back....i would be cautions whatever you do, man. i feel for you. she is at a prime age where she can make decisions for herself but is too young to always make the smarter choice, so her aunt will look out for her. not that her aunt is smart........dude, i feel for you!
2007-02-01 04:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Your young and have plenty of opportunity to date who ever.She is obviously concerned with her families rules which isn't such a bad thing.They most likely just want to see the best in life for her and believe the home schooling will give her a better chance of this and a chance to have a better focused atmosphere.
If you try to get in between her family and her in the end you will most likely only hurt her.Just let it go and find someone else.If she truly likes you and wants to see you, she will do so on her own reconnaissance and there fore prove to you it was meant to be.Don't try and change things that will only cause more grief and headaches than its worth.
2007-02-01 04:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her aunt is just trying to care for her, and if you respect that, than her aunt may be more willing to let her date earlier.
Just be good friends. Tell her you'd like to still go see a movie together or go on walks. You could even just hang out one day to talk. This shows you care and you're willing to wait for her. One year won't seem like a long time, and if you prove to her aunt you are respectable and care for your girl, than the aunt may be more lenient.
2007-02-01 04:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch by phone,And if you get the chance ma-be meet up in secret,You need to to be a bit clever and not get caught,Just be sensible don't hang around where you think that her Aunt will see you..
Good Luck i feel for you both..
2007-02-01 04:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my area, i think of that if he . . ~ mentioned that he grew to become into 'searching for a girl to invite out' on the evening of homecoming then i do no longer think of he quite grew to become into. ~ asserting that he had a female pal then , later denying all of it. ~ been quite close one 2d then a splash S&*t with you the subsequent. etc. etc. then he probable does such as you ,yet because of the fact he knows which you do no longer sense the comparable way, he's appearing like he's moved on , that he would not want or desire you. every time you argue issues continually seem to type themselves out, because of the fact he cant bare to be without you. in spite of the undeniable fact that it hurts him to renowned which you do not have thoughts for him, so he's going to get offended and aggravated with you. . . like i mentioned he cant stay away in spite of the undeniable fact that so issues continually artwork out , only to bring about a diverse situation. wish i kinda helped, entering into the direction of the comparable concern.mines no longer labored its self out yet. . .yet its greater valuable (: x
2016-11-23 20:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact by phone and email and once she turns 16 officially ask her out. No one has to know who you talk to on the phone and email
2007-02-01 04:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she just insnt intrested any more and wanted some sapce and she didnt want to say that so she made up an excuse that is what girls do somtimes it has happend to me to but with a guy!...well just find somone else and be friends with her
2007-02-01 04:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life because for one she didn't like from the starts and now that she got you awway from her she can just move on with thinking about you coming around......
2007-02-01 04:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by DC all day moniemonie1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhh well tell her to get her permit NOW, so that when she's 16 she can get her license and come to see you. Or better yet, since you want to see her as well, get YOUR license and make it happen.
2007-02-01 04:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just im her or something stay friends and wait until the time comes
2007-02-01 04:34:05 · answer #11 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋