Well me and my boyfriend go to different schools (were only 45 miutes away its not that far) but never the less with our busy schedules i never see him. Sometimes I hate talking to him on the phone and i cant see him. I really do hate it. I told him this a couple weeks ago and he seemed okay with it. Well last night he asked me "Do you still hate talking to me on the phone sometimes?" and I said yeah sometimes but only because i miss him so much it makes it hard for me to only talk to him and not see him. I assured him that this was the only reason and he got really quiet and said "Okay, go back to bed sweetie" (cause he had woke me up to ask that) Did I say something wrong? right after i texted him and told him that i loved him very very much and that i just miss him and that's why i get so emotional when we're on the phone. Do you think he's mad at me?
2007-02-01 04:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by texastreasure 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all! I'm in the same situation, and I only live 5 minutes and less than a mile from my guy! He feels like you're either nagging him, or he feels really bad that he can't do anything else to comfort you.
Let him know, which you did, that you just say things like that because you miss him and you're only telling him your feelings. He'll take this and realize it.
The way he called just to ask shows to me that he cares for you very much. He seems like an awesome guy, and one day distance won't pose a problem. If he cares this much, make sure you let him know you care just as much!
The text messages was a great touch too, and it really works!
2007-02-01 04:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably more hurt than mad. My fiancee is in the army and that is tough. He's over 6 hours away and i see him maybe once a month. Sometimes talking on the phone does suck but you have to suck it up because thats all you got. It's ok to be emotional because he's probably feeling the same way you are, men just don't show their emotions. I hope everything works out.
2007-02-01 12:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Auti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be more hurt than mad. He probably misses you just as much, and you are probably not the only one feeling this way. Instead of thinking about not seeing him, when talking on the phone talk about all the things the two of you will do together when you do see each other. If you are more focused on planning your next meeting, you may not be so focused on how much you do miss him.
2007-02-01 12:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hope for your sake he is not mad to the point where he wants to call things off...i really dont understand why he should be mad...but anywho...it seems like you really like your boyfriend..i do wish you the best....i totally understand where you are coming from...sh it sometimes i dont like to talk to my guy over phone because it hurts so much knowing that you miss them and you cant see or touch or kiss them..you made a smart move by texting him to reassure him thats the only reason y you dont like speaking to him...cant you guys just put aside a day when its just for the two of you..i know that my guy and i are busy working during the week....but on weekends we make sure to spend quality time together........i feel like your BF should understand and there is no need for him to be upset...if anything he should want to find ways for the two of you to spend time alone...good luck
2007-02-01 12:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are always hard no matter what age you are. Make him understand that, and do not worry about him being mad at you worry about him being understanding.
2007-02-01 12:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he's mad i think you brought up something that was frustrating him too. Your both being bothered by the distance.
2007-02-01 12:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love the guy? If yer answer is yes then he should be in bed with you, rather than in bed over the phone.
2007-02-01 12:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Rajiv Goswami 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LEAVE HIM ALONE 4 A COUPLE DAYS NO THAT WONT WORK U ALREADY DONT SEEE HI E GO BY HIS HOUSE N EXPLAIN DONT TURN OUT LIKE THAT SONG LAST NIGH BY DIDDY N KESHIA COLE
2007-02-01 12:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by keanda g 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he could have taken it wrong and feels insecure
2007-02-01 12:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he's mad
2007-02-01 12:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋