I have a boyfriend who is truly amazing. I love him with all my heart. However my ex is stilll interested and wont really leave me alone. He is constantly trying to touch me and tell me he loves me. I dont want to make my new bf think I will love my ex, and I have tried telling the ex that I dont want him anymore but he wont listen... HELP! What do I do? I need both girls and guys advice!
2007-02-01 04:08:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with both and may the better man have you...
2007-02-01 04:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i live the same case with you i had a relathionship with a 22 years old boy we loved each other for 2 years we break down before 2 months because he was bored (rude)i find someone else very good boy better than the previous i love him but now the ex want me back .so , you should think who you really want the ex or the new then you should send away the other way you must tell what are you felling and then if he did not stop you must stop go out with him or even speak untill he understand this
2007-02-01 04:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current boyfriend how you feel so that, if he sees this, he doesn't think you want it. Second, tell your ex to leave you alone, if he refuses, then file a restraining order with your local courthouse. However, if you file a restraining order, but allow him to come over or anything, that violates the restraining order and it will no longer be in effect.
2007-02-01 04:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from your ex. Don't call him, don't talk to him, don't visit him.
You should also tell your current boyfriend about the problem. The honesty will win you some trust. Explain to him what your ex is doing, and that you've told him you're not interested, but he continues to do these things.
2007-02-01 04:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Trisha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him nicely you want no more contact and if it contnues you will call the police. In most states touching you in this manner could be construed as an assult. Make sure he clearly knows where you are in this! Remember just one relationship at a time!
2007-02-01 04:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by LDog1911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit humping all the weirdos. If you do a guy in high school, you and he will both think that it's love. Yet, you won't know what love is for another decade. You could always have you current boyfriend thump him.
2007-02-01 04:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to get tough with your ex, period. I assume you're someplace where you can't avoid being (class or work) when he bothers you like this. If not, then you're probably going to have to quit going there or consider more drastic steps.
If you can't avoid him then get tough, lay down the law and tell him since he won't quit making advances then he has to stay away period, and let him know that if he doesn't you're going to have to report him to school/security/police as appropriate. Then do it. No going soft and backing out.
There's no being friends with exs, especially those that don't want to remain exs, and there's no reason to consider or respect their feelings if they won't consider or respect yours.
2007-02-01 04:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by OminousOnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should tell her current b/f about your ex and how he keeps tryin to get with you avoid your ex if he calls dont answer if he visits pretend your not home or tell him to leave simple as that
2007-02-01 04:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by PhotographyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to F**k off and that you want nothing to do with him.... If he still bugs you, tell him you will get a restraining order....The Police will put it into effect if he's treathen to physically harm you. You may also want to explain to you new b.f. that while you are not interested in your old b.f at all, he can't seem to leave you alone...Best wishes.
2007-02-01 04:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bf to make him to quit! whenever one of my exes wouldnt leave me alone, my ex bf would VOLUNTARILY pick up my phone, call the a.ss, and say, "I'm *insert FULL name here* and shes with me now!! And if you've got a problem with it, come find me, ******...ill be waiting for you"
the other guys would usually say "oh..ok bye sorry sorry bye *click*" lol. he did this to like, 3 guys....all of which stopped calling me, so his theory works. tell your bf to try it
2007-02-01 04:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me,I'd tell my current man whats happening.
Honesty is the best policy after all and I'm sure he will make it clear to him.It's a plus aswell on the trust level.
Goodluck...
2007-02-01 04:14:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋