ok well i have a cousin she is 14 years old and she is alwatys on top of a 18-19 year old . but this 19 year old only wants is you know? but her mom knows about it and her mom told me what ever she does to let her now and now she is going to an all girl schoiol did i do a right thing and told her mom?
2007-02-01 04:04:55 · 14 answers · asked by BLiZz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are doing absolutely the right thing obviously you care about the choices your cousin is making and this might put her on the better path of life.
2007-02-01 04:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by angie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing by telling her mom, it is a potentially dangerous situation for a 14-yr-old girl to be having intercourse with a 19-yr-old boys. The mom needs to have a talk with her daughter and make sure she is aware of all the potential hazards of this relationship - pregnancy, STDs, etc.
If the girl really loves and trusts her boyfriend, and if the boyfriend has any sense of self-respect, they shouldn't have to keep the relationship secret from her mom.
2007-02-01 12:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably ok to tell her mom. You need to talk with your cousin, especially if you are older than her. She needs to know that just because she is old enough for sex and that it feels good, there is a lot more at stake than that--and I'm not talking about what you learn about in health class. If you don't get her making healthy emotional bonds at an early age, she'll wind up sleeping with a bunch of guys to try to find the right one, and will destroy her own personality in the process.
If she respects your opinion, don't lecture her, but try to get her to be healthier in her relationships. Try to relate stories from your life or the lives of freinds to show the right ways and wrong ways to get to know a boy.
2007-02-01 12:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your cousin will be mad but it is for her own good. You did the right thing, just look at the change that her Mom made based on your information. You put the situation into the right hands. You don't want any more little cousins sprouting up before their time. Just talk to your cousin about the importance of her education and how once she is grown there will be plenty of time to play and do what she wants when she wants.
2007-02-01 12:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because she is way to young to be all over a 18-19 year old
2007-02-01 12:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by amber j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you're sort of making it sound like it's her fault the guy is so sleazy.
2007-02-01 12:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 14 and he is 19????!!!! THAT IS FELONY RAPE!!!!!!!!!!! You did the right thing, now is her Mom going to do something??!!
2007-02-01 12:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if shes gonna be a slutt, there is really nothing you can do to change that, you just have to talk to her and tell her that guys may say they like you more when you do that but they really dont respect you when you do.
2007-02-01 12:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lek 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy was a asshole them yeah were right but if he was nice to her then maybe your doing the OK thing..........
2007-02-01 12:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by alisha bessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you were right to tell it congrats.
2007-02-01 12:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋