i have been with my man for 5 yrs and he never spends time with me. we live together but he thinks i am his servant and i am sick of it.. i want to go out with a guy from my job and have sex with him, do u disagree or agree.
2007-02-01 04:00:20 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
iam not married,,
2007-02-01 04:05:22 · update #1
wow and people say paki men are bad.....what about u trying to cheat on him..leave him and go have orgies afterwards..thats right !
2007-02-01 04:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by bigboobsucker 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DISAGREE!!
1. Doesn't matter the reason, cheating is still cheating
2. Leave if you're unhappy but do not get a new guy til you can 100% let go of the first one. Move out!
3. "Office/factory romances" are rarely more than sex.
4. How would you feel if your current guy cheated, after asking permission from thousands of strangers w/out 1 word to you?
5. Bed hopping will not make you happy or content & is risky at best. Not to mention your reputation.
2007-02-01 04:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally, it would be best if you end the relationship with your boyfriend first. Just be strong and end it if you are so sick of it. Do this more for your own self respect, so you have no regrets when you finally do go out with the other guy... and don't expect to have a real relationship with the other guy without first taking the time away from both men to get over this relationship, learn your own lessons, and gain a new perspective It's best to face your own negative feelings than to bury them in another relationship.
2007-02-01 04:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself would not do it. But I think that you have good reason to leave the man your with because you are not happy with him.no female should be treated like a slave. Even if you love the man your with now can you see yourself with him 10 years from now? In most cases the man don't change so I would say save yourself the thought of being a cheater and leave the man your with and then if you feel the need then get the other man that you are interested in.
Good Luck
2007-02-01 04:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI there !!!
Sounds to me like you are very upset, and when we are like this many times we can behave in certain ways that later we will regret. I would NOT have an affair. Stop and think of this girl, you will be disrespecting yourself, your husband and God. And why would you want to dirty the water you drink from ? Have an affair at work only spells trouble, not to mention the implications if you get caught.
Have a heartfelt conversation with your husband, let him know how you feel with the way he treats you. I would not speak to him in a judgemental way, this will make him defensive. Talk to him with love. You catch more bees with honey.
I would also stop and analyze how you treat your hubby, many times we are very critical of how we are treated, yet we fail to see what are we doing to contribute to the situation.
Change your routine with him, do new things. You married him because you saw good qualities in him, they are still there, you are just so upset you can not see them anymore.
Life is to short to be unhappy. Don't allow your anger to ruin your marriage, or your life. Seek happiness, but not in the arms of a stranger. Wishing you the best
love light and peace
2007-02-01 04:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally disagree! If you want to go out with this guy and have sex with him...........then get a divorce! I think that you and your husband need to have a seriouse discussion ASAP!!! You shouldn't be with someone you don't love! Make yourself happy, but think about other peoples feelings aswell. And if your not together a lot then most likely he is feeling the same way. Just talk to him about it. Maybe you will both feel better about the whole situation. But don't do it behind his back. You will just feel worse about the situation and about yourself. And then when you do divorce, which you will...........it will come out and it will be messy!!
2007-02-01 04:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by nichole_lalonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
disagree, you should never cheat on your man no matter the circumstance. Let him know how you feel and then if he doesn't listen then break things off with him. THEN go after the guy from your work. you will only look down upon-ed if you go out with a guy from your job since you are in a relationship already. it will make you look bad also.
2007-02-01 04:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why stay with your man if you are so unhappy? Make a clean break and date the guy from work, don't rush into anything serious and have some fun. Honestly, it is so much better for everyone involved if you do things on the up and up...especially yourself, you dont' need the guilt and drama of cheating on your guy be straight up with him like you would want him to be with you.
2007-02-01 04:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by paula0005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does "been with" mean married or boyfriend? If its just boyfriend, then its not really "cheating" is it? Though it probably would be wise to tell him that's how you feel about it. If nothing else, it could be a wake-up call. Then you have to decide what it is you REALLY want most: 1) "him" to pay attention to you or 2) the "thing" with the other guy
2007-02-01 04:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by anothersomeonenew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is half way around the world and I would never do anything to ruin what I have. I am alone day and night I sleep alone I eat alone so really your man is there just not emotionally. I have never been in this situation so I probably wont give you the answer you want, but I say leave his butt and go ahead with your life. Life is to short to be under lock and key.
2007-02-01 04:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by April R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
every problem has solution, first find why he never spends time with you? Is something in you which he don't like or you have not understood him completely. Make him understand how much you love him. Love him without any expectations, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. You will find that one day he love you more than you love him.
Regarding thinking of having sex with other guy, it is not good as it may break your relationship. only animals do that. they don't have relationships. Cheating him is cheating yourself.
I believe everything will go right in your life. Love and love.
2007-02-01 04:09:17 · answer #11 · answered by loving friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋