I live with my parents and my 3 kids,my mom has custody of her, I have lived within 1-2 miles of her or with her all her life.i ask a question about giving up my right last night and was severely chriticised over it, my mom has had custody of her since she was a baby, she won't give me custody of her back, my mom wanted to have another child ,but was diagnosed with cervical cancer at 22, and she took my child to raise to help me because i was married at 16 and my husband turned out to be a child molester and a drunk and beat me, i got out of that situation quickly, but she still won't give her back,and i cope with that, but i have always been in my daughters life and always will be, and my two other children are autistic, so find out the whole story before you judge someone from now on.
2007-02-01 04:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by babyblossomsmomma 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
That's not a question, it's a rant.
Don't post stuff on the internet if you can't hanld eother people having opinions
2007-02-01 04:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya Pants 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I havent' seen your other question so I can't really comment on that one, but as for the everybody getting upset question....
I wouldn't worry too much about it, lol.
The majority of people on here who are chastizing you, have no room to talk. Look up their profiles, or previous questions asked. 9 out of 10 times you will find they are on their 2-3 teen pregnancy, never had kids but because they had a freshman level psychology course, of course they know all the answers, or my favorite, the mother of 7 who is too stupid to use a condom but somehow has time to come on here and lecture.
Trust me, they don't have a clue.
But I can tell you legally speaking, you need to move out, get yourself established and contact an attorney if you want custody back. You will need to show the judge you are capable of doing this without your mother.
2007-02-01 04:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know your previous question, but what is it that makes you feel bad about your mom raising your daughter ? or did i get your question wrong ? If I am not wrong, isnt it sweet of your mom to take care of your daughter, and probably your mom is the only person you can trust with, your own life, and your daughters. This gives you time and space to deal with your other two children, and do it well. Yes you are right, although your mom takes care of her, you will always be in your daughters life, the same way your mom may be feeling that she will always be in your life. It works in a circle, doesnt it ?
So just relax, deal with your immediate problems, help your other two children, and ofcourse solve your own personal problems, that is if you have any in terms of your own emotions, career, education, whatever it is. You could also spend a lot of time with your daughter, and with your mom.
good luck
2007-02-01 04:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by arya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing by giving your daughter up. keeping our children safe is our job! I don't know what the first ? was, but it sounds like to me maybe you didn't tell the whole story to begin w/. If your mom wants your other 2 and you don't or can't consider it. And for gods sake quite getting pregnate. In the long run all you are doing is screwing up those kids life, and that is the opposite of protecting them.
2007-02-01 04:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave ur daughter with ur mother..Shes has lived with her all her life so it sounds and taking her form ur mom would only be hurting ur child. does she even know ur her mother? just leave her be. Im sure ur moms good to her, i know u love her too but just leave her. If ur mother took her like 5 months ago then that would be a different story. Ur always there for her still anyways so just leave her..
2007-02-01 04:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must have been a hard desision for you! but atleast your mother was willing to take the child and you get to be involved in your child's life. people on here are very judgemental, in the end you need to do what you feel is best for your children. if it is being with your mother, than so be it!
2007-02-01 04:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want full custody of your child then i would talk to a lwyer who specializes in situations like that and see what they say.
2007-02-01 04:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sheesh nothing like airing dirty laundry. Another Jerry Springer Moment
2007-02-01 04:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i agree with you. however, if you want your child back, take your mother to court and get her back.
2007-02-01 04:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you and your mom are OK with it, I dont see a problem.
2007-02-01 04:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋