okay so i have a boyfriend and he lives about a half an hour away. He is the sweetest guy and i like him sooo very much. But there is a couple things that get in the way. First of all he is way too busy he has work and basketball and then college plus tons of homework. so he really doesn't have time for me. When he does have time he chooses to be with his guy friend instead of me. Hello arent you suppose to want to be with your girlfriend okay so then he will say he is going to call me and guess what time he decides to call me at 2 o'clock in the morning i am like hello i have to get up in 4 hours. The thing is to that whenever we talk he fights with me i can't take that but i love him What should i do??
2007-02-01 03:59:42 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra Dee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's just not that into you. What's to love about a guy who doesn't want to be with you and fights with you? What part of that = love to you?
2007-02-01 04:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you talk, listen to how it goes. Figure out if you're the reason for the fighting, or if he is. And try your hardest not to twist it so that it's always him. If it really is him, break up--he's not worth that. If it isn't, try to work out the issues with yourself and stay with him.
And hello--he's not "supposed" to be with you instead of his guy friend. I know you're jealous, but if he was never with his guy friend, his guy friend might come on here posting a question like, "First of all he is way too busy he has work and basketball and then college plus tons of homework. so he really doesn't have time for me. When he does have time he chooses to be with his girlfriend instead of me. Hello arent friends supposed to come first?"
2007-02-01 12:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to realize that while you love him, he may not have the same degree of feeling towards you. At this point in his life, he has other priorities - school, work, sports, friends, and family. Romance is just less important to him right now than these other things, so that's why he puts them first. It doesn't make him a bad person - it just means he has different priorities right now.
It is time that you break up with him, and find someone who shares your same level of interest in romance and relationships.
2007-02-01 12:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him at a time you know he'll be least busy. and just in case he doesnt answer the phone leave him a serious message saying to please call you back because you seriously need to speak with him. whether he calls you back or answers the phone when you call, talk to him calmly and tell him how you feel. tell him that you really care for him and you understand that he's bery busy but that you'd wish that most times instead of hanging out with his friends he'd hang out with you.
in any case you'll be able to find out why he doesnt give you much attention. and then you'll be able to come to an agreement. of course, if its something fixable. good luck!
2007-02-01 12:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u could do sth that shows him that he will lose u .. u can make plans for that ... u know u can arrose his jealosy ... maybe this thing will make him move and try to give u more attention ... but hey u can also use another way .. u can show him that u really really care about him and that u want him.. try to bring him many gifts or just doa nything to make him love u more
2007-02-01 12:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds stressful. just try to be friends and if anything gets better you can try for the bf/gf thing again.
2007-02-01 12:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find someone else to love, that is worthy of you!!!!
2007-02-01 12:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget about him and move on.
2007-02-01 12:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Scotty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just leave him
2007-02-01 12:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be Gay.
2007-02-01 12:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋