This guy added me to his messenger and we have been talking none stop ever since. This connection has been going on for a month now but all of a sudden he is not talking to me. I am sending him messages and he is not responding. I am confused cause he didn't say anything and hurts cause I am wondering is it something i said or is it that he is no longer into me? Or maybe he has a new online connection so he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Please people tell me what you think of this.
2007-02-01 03:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by ChocolateDiva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Update :he called and said he was not even around and that i blew things out of propotion and we spoke and i told him he should tell me when he needs a break and he agreed to that
2007-02-03 04:14:39 · update #1
I can understand how this can make you feel confused. Can you call him? If so, just ask him how he is (without bringing up the email), listen to what he has to say. Do not ask him why he has not responded to your email, leave this out of the conversation. Reason for this is, you do not want to give him the impression that he is obligated to you in anyway.. After all, sounds as if right now you two are just friends. Give the friendship with him room to grow. It might be that he just got busy with something else. You too should get busy involving your time doing other things besides emailing him or sending him messages. You will come off as more interesting to him and not so needy. Hope I helped. Good luck to you!
2007-02-01 04:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a person you actually know and see on a regular basis? If it is, just ask him 'what's up' about his 'messenger' in person ... it could simply be that an 'adult' has put him on 'limits' or his computer isn't working, or even that your messenger may not be working properly. If you don't actually know the 'real person' then I'm going to tell you to simply 'drop' this person from your messenger 'contact list' and be aware that you could have been 'talking' to an 'adult' sexual predator, and for some reason you 'got really lucky' and were 'dropped' for some reason. PLEASE BE CAREFUL WITH WHO YOU "TALK TO" ON LINE!
2007-02-01 04:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason could also be yahoo... there are times when i send im's and the person doesn't get them and vice versa.
2007-02-01 04:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Scotty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he found someone else but maybe something happened to his computer. Either way I would start chatting with someone else.
2007-02-01 03:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by kws504 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If he respects you, he will at least respond. If he doesn't respond whatsoever, then you'll know what you need to know. "Why" doesn't particularly matter.
2007-02-01 03:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that kws is right on the money.
2007-02-01 03:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by iko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ain't into you anymore. Period
2007-02-01 03:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋