he loses nothing by sticking around, but you do so what do i do if i find it immensely difficult notto let go and more importantly not to call
2007-02-01 03:24:50 · 15 answers · asked by nina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyone can let go, they chose not to.
2007-02-01 03:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are banging your head against the wall. You can't make someone love you, no matter how wonderful you are. That's just a very hard lesson to learn, but when you do, you will realize all the time you've wasted on someone who doesn't find you worth loving while all the while a wonderful man who will think you're the greatest thing in the world is out there looking for you.
2007-02-01 03:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm am in exactly the same situation. He loves me but he's not inlove with me and he doesn't care if I leave or if I stay. Right now I'm gradually pulling myself away from him...step by step...day by day. First it was not letting him do certain things for me. Then it was not going to places I knew he would see me...next will be the phone calls, then the visits, and then eventually he will go all together. I don't know if that helps but....it's process and you can do it...
2007-02-01 03:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one.
Get a hobby, go out with friends, take up an evening course, go to the gym, take dance classes.
Throw yourself into anything and everything that you can so that you don't have time to dwell on it. Soon you will forget and you'll make loads of new friends in the process.
2007-02-01 03:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by some girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u stick around it's only gonna cause u more pain. If he doesnt feel the same way u do then it's time to let go. Why be with someone who doesnt share the same feelings as you?
2007-02-01 03:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rosa S 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is why do you value yourself so little?
Why would you give permission to someone to use you like that and then be grateful? Maybe instead of hanging on to them you need some time to focus on you and what you need. The one thing you know is that this person isn't it! You deserve better and you need to know why you don't expect better. You need to be kinder to yourself or your relationships are all going to mirror this one.
Don't waste anymore of your life going through this sort of pain. You do deserve more. Deb
2007-02-01 03:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this friend who was interested in this guy but he wasn't interested in her,she didn't want to let go and the guy knew how she felt and he didn't mind but she was miserable,always asking herself wats wrong with her,y couldn't he love her,everytime she see him with other girls,she would be crying,wanting to die etc.Why would u hold on to someone that doesn't love,him being their is because he is pitying u and nothing more.U should move on,my friend did and she is happy now.
2007-02-01 03:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by pacific30 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus mentioned that suffering grew to become into what went out with the previous testomony...Matt 12.7 Jesus' dying wasn't sacrifice, it grew to become right into a step up. as quickly as we connect with God existence is uncomplicated. My yoke is uncomplicated and my burden is easy. Forgive your mom for she does the wonderful she knows a thank you to do.
2016-11-23 20:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if you know they don't love you back then get away from the person as quickly as possible. you could still be friends, but just not in a relationship since it would be superficial.
2007-02-01 03:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course he is fine with ...its charming for him and also gives him a lot of self secure somehow
i know its so difficult and tough but even thou u love him dont show him
best wishes to u
2007-02-01 03:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should leave it alone because if he does not love you then it won,t bother him to go sleep around and also there is plenty of guys in the world.
2007-02-01 03:30:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋