There is a guy I like.. he flirts with me a lot.. sometimes he even goes sexual with it. But he seems to only do it when there is a group of people around. I've spent time alone with him and.. yeah.. maybe a little flirting here and there, but nothing like when I'm with friends. What is going through his mind?
2007-02-01 03:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by christypooh87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to us guys on this one; a guy doesn't flirt with a specific girl in a group of people to impress other people. He flirts with *every* girl, if that's what he's going for. It could mean he really likes you and is afraid to show it when you're alone, where he can't play it off as easily, or it could mean that he enjoys flirting with you, but doesn't want anything serious. When you're alone and he lays it on thick, you're probably more likely to react than you would in a group.
Either way, I'd say forget about it. If he's too afraid to ask you out, he's not worth having, and if he just enjoys playing with you, he's not worth having.
2007-02-01 03:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by JDB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's showboating for friends. if he is the same when you spend alone time with him, excludinng the sexual comments, then he may be trying to embarass you in a friendly way. Sometimes people need a group of friends to act out in ways they normally wouldn't. just ask him. Guys like it when girls are forward.
2007-02-01 11:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by ZombieFace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just showing off for the group. If he keeps it up, just ask him what he is thinking, don't get used.
2007-02-01 11:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by jan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he's a perverted type, that show's alot of disrespect, when i see a guy doing that i beat his butt down for showing disrespect to a woman in a public place.
Doesn't matter if i know the guy or the lady he's disrepecting i don't put up with that anywhere i go.
2007-02-01 11:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey doesn't know how to "Close the Deal" when he is alone with you.
Help him out. If your interested in him ask him out for drinks or dinner.
2007-02-01 11:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by mrrparker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i htink that you need to be striaght forward with him let him know what you are feeling and i believe that maybe when a group of people is areound that when he feels more comfortable to flirt with you.
2007-02-01 11:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe is does that to get attention from people or approval. Tell him to stop playing games.
2007-02-01 11:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by sanj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be str8 up and ask him he probably wants you bad just dont know how to say the **** an afraid of getn a no answer n getin hurt and lookin super stupid
2007-02-01 11:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by paul lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy seems to be to shy to do it when you are alone with each other so its my guess and my boyfriends that he likes you or he is just showing off infront of your friends.
2007-02-01 11:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to impress his friends. Don't buy into it. If he's only friendly when you're around his friends, he is only thinking of himself. Lose him.
2007-02-01 11:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋