it's your life- if you enjoy being jerked around by some bozo who doesn't know what he wants from week to week, Chris is your man. If you decide to marry him, do yourself a favor and get premarital counseling.
Life never goes in reverse, but you can try if you think Chris is the best man in the world for you, and you want to commit the rest of your life to him.
2007-02-01 03:08:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Stay with the new guy. Sure you have history with Chris, but he is not going to be your partner for life! You are right about the newbie not deserving to be hurt when he has done nothing wrong. Chris does not want to marry you at all. He just can't deal with the fact that he feels like a failure because he has let you go. You never realize what a great girl or buy you got until he/she is gone.
Stick with the new guy and if it doesn't work you can take what you have learned and apply it somewhere else. You do not want to be with a guy who has a fear of commitment!
2007-02-01 11:11:44
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answered by voodoo_lover_23 2
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well since ur ex is the one that called off the marriage and he moved on first, now u gotta make him wait till ur ready. give this new guy a chance and see what happens, if he continues to treat u nicer than ur ex and u really feel like ur compatible then continue ur life with him. but if he doesnt, then just go back to ur ex and tell him both of guys made a mistake and u think u guys belong together. theres really no right or wrong answer, its just what u think will be best for u. but i say, u make ur ex's @ss wait out on u now.
2007-02-01 11:09:32
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answered by oc 4
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It sounds like you haven't had closure with Chris. You need that. Then move on.
The key to what you've said is "He's treated me better than Chris did." If you're not meant to be with the guy you're seeing right now, at the very least you deserve to be with someone who holds you in his highest regard and treats you as such.
2007-02-01 11:12:04
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answered by freckleface 1
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he did tell u when he wasnt ready right?
may be u can tell him that ur not quite ready for a marriage now. im sure he will understand- because he had his reasons fo telling u the same thing and he has gone through the same. if he really loves u then he will be ready to wait. and u will get enough time to know the new guy. take enough time to know the new guy, and then make ur decision. But- BUT dont dont tell of ur plans to them.. we dont like being in a competition- we hate it -especially when its a girl who has to be impressed. Chances are that one or both of them might just turn furious on the news. so dont tell till u decide. Just tell the old guy to wait- if u really matter he will. - i hope m not tellng u something foolish.. bless u
2007-02-01 11:10:07
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answered by Amal 2
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Well sounds l;ike your ex is indecisive. Do u really want a man that is unsure about what he is truly feeling. I believe u should move on. If you guys were meant to be he will fight for your love till the end. And this new guy, well hes still new! lol Its not like you gys are getting married are u?? Wel just see how this new guy is and move on. Everything happens for a reason and whoever is meant to be together are meant to be :)
2007-02-01 11:08:00
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answered by deanda 3
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I think Chris made up his mind. Now make up yours. The new guy doesn't factor in.
2007-02-01 11:12:45
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answered by Ade 6
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it sounds like your ex got dumped and needs a little comfort and he is looking to you for it... what i say is not to go bakc to him stick with the guy you are with and if things are ment to work out with your ex bf they will but you need to do wat is best for you and it sounds like your happy...oh and ur ex mayb jealous that u have moved on and he doestn want that so he is tryin to ruin it.
2007-02-01 11:07:34
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answered by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2
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move on
2007-02-01 11:04:47
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answered by paul lee 2
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