iv been with this guy for a month or 2 and i think im in love with him is that wierd and should i tell him or would that just freak him out
2007-02-01 02:58:44 · 12 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
understanding, compromise, trust, honesty
let him say it first if u are scared. it will scare him off if u come on too strong. u can say u "really really like" him, etc (thats what me and my bf did before we stepped into the "love" phase)
2007-02-01 03:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a really good rule of thumb is to wait the standard 3 months. usually you have a pretty good sense of a person and them of you after that time. most guys are a little 'gun shy' of the bigger commitments, [IE. moving in together, professing your love, meeting the parents, etc.] its great that you're feelings are becoming so substantial so quickly but to save yourself some unnecessary heartache, just give it some time.
for me, the definition of love is wanting the other person to be happy more than wanting my own happiness. hopefully that person reciprocates and then you are both responsible for one another's bliss. its a very rewarding experience. sure, there are times when selfishness takes hold but even then you take them into consideration in your decision making process. best of luck and i hope you find what your looking for.
2007-02-01 11:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by info seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive thought about this question many times. So I must say, Good for you for actually asking it.
My father once told me that a man could never understand the love/bond between a mother and her child. So I guess that would be the only unconditional love.
2007-02-01 11:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. 2 months is not really long enough to drop that shell. Especially if he isnt sure yet how he feels. You could ruin a beautiful thing by jumping too quickly. When it's right. You'll know.
2007-02-01 11:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something special that is not just given out of nothing, to love only happen one time and it true. To love if when you see the person and you get nervous. To love is when you give all you got for that person, when you miss that person, when you forget about the time and anything and your only focus for that moment is with the person you are with. Love is when his/her happiness is more important than yours at that time. Love is to share, care, trust, confide, risk everthing and anything for that special someone.
2007-02-01 11:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by el chido 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to fall for someone is not weird.. you've been with him long enough to see some things that made you like him.. you may not be totally in love with this guy but if you think you're feeling something other than friendship, then maybe you are really starting to fall for him..
2007-02-01 11:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by wattawes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is what love does.
Try getting along with him for a while and see what happens?
2007-02-01 11:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, love starts at home,in your house.
you have to be able to love yourself 1st,before you can love
some one else.and you can;t be in love with yourself if you keep
cutting yourself and causing self inflicked wounds.
love yourself un-condtitionaly,treat yourself right,look after your life
and once you have learned to love and care for yourself properly
then and only then can you love another person.
2007-02-01 11:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not real for boys I think.love is only a beautiful girl for boys
2007-02-01 11:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by killhandekill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u are willing to accept the good and the bad in a person
2007-02-01 11:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by j_babygirl_1998 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋